I totally agree, I think that is the beauty of destination weddings you know that the people that DID come, really want to share the day with you and the hubby. Most of our 25 guests will be family which is cool, they are going to complain because my cousin just had her DW in Punta Cana and they all said it was too much $$ blah blah but hey they went LOL. This is our 3rd attempt to plan a wedding and I got so much SH** the last couple times that no one even knows we are planning, they will know when they get the STD in the mail, I dont want to hear anyone's negativity.