JenniferM

Wow these look great and so simple!

These look great!

We chose Mexico for a few reasons: Cheaper plane tickets My family had been to DR and Mexico and always enjoyed the food in Mexico more His extended family loves Mexico Lots of AI options Lots of things to do offsite of the AI Second largest barrier reef in the world Riviera Maya is considered very safe Mayan ruins (one of the seven wonders of the world) In the end I think it all goes to personal preference. We were looking for lots of excursions and things to do outside of the resort while still being able to stay at the resort and have a good time if we wanted to. From what I read Mexico is great for this whereas the DR doesn't offer as much offsite but offers quite a bit (maybe even at a lesser price) at the resort. Hope this helps! Quote: Originally Posted by Carlicardenas I recently got engaged and I just started my search. So far we have decided that the 2 best places to have our wedding would be Mexico or Dominican Republic. How did you guys decide on the place? I am basing my decision on proximity and $$ plane tickets (from Charlotte NC) Its so hard because I know everyone wants the perfect wedding so I am torn on this decision. I am having a catholic wedding so i am finding Mexico to have the most chapels in resorts? Any suggestions?

I'll definitely keep you posted. Also has anyone had a reception on the pier thingy or know anything about it? I keep seeing pictures but I don't know the name or have any details about it. Quote: Originally Posted by AllieH Hi Jennifer, I don't know for certain, but I believe they serve all of the dishes. It's a great question to ask!! Will you keep us posted on the answer, if one of other EDR brides doesn't have it for us? I'd like to add that to the official thread info.

This is great our dogs do the same thing Quote: Originally Posted by MCree Had to include my babies!

Aww he is so cute! Quote: Originally Posted by Loreal30 This is my Puggle, Pugzley. He is 4 right now, we got him when he was 2 from a local shelter. Such a snuggler...love him to bits!

Does anyone know for the BBQ menu that is offered for private events, are all of the items listed included or is it pick and choose? So for example will we need to choose to meats and two veggies, etc.

Someone mentioned that they used glow in the dark mugs. Does anyone know where I could find glow in the dark insulated cups with straws? I think these would be soo cool

These are cute! Did the beads stay on pretty well?

Helpful list thanks! Quote: Originally Posted by sswed13 Introduction of the Bridal Party Introduction of the Bride and Groom Welcome Grace Dinner served Speeches done during dinner: - Bridal Party (max 2 min each) - Welcome from Father of the Bride - Welcome from Mother of the Bride (my parents are separated and they both wanted to do a speech, so that's why I did them separate) - Welcome from Groom's family (Mother of the Groom, and Sisters) - Thank you from Bride and Groom Cutting of the cake Slide show (wedding cake served) First dance Father/Daughter dance Mother/Son dance Party!!! part way through the dancing - garter and bouquet toss

Awesome thank you Murmel! Quote: Originally Posted by murmel The event is the cost of the food. If you bring your own extra decorations, linens, etc., then there is an additional fee to set up those items. (if you rent or purchase items from them directly then it is just that fee, no additional setup) This fee is decided by the local wedding coordinator on site, and usually will vary by the amount of work that is required to place all your decor and the number of guests. (but a good rule of thumb is plan for about $5/person....and usually the maximum has been about $250)

Awesome site thanks!

Does anyone know if there are additional costs for private events other than the food itself? Is there a setup pp fee, a flat private event fee, or something of that nature? We're trying to get a better idea of what costs will be.

Quote: Originally Posted by vas2014 Yes they do. I placed an order on 9/4 and received it yesterday.. That's quick and so was your reply Thanks, his argument is invalid.

I saw somewhere that there's a way around the 150 posts. I think you can purchase that level or something. Does anyone know how much that costs?

Do you know if they have a pretty good turnaround?

These are all great ideas! For everyone that did the OOT bags, were your guests okay with that after the reception? Or did they seem disappointed receiving everything the first day? Thanks!

Argh I can't wait for the 150 mark! Quote: Originally Posted by ellenj01 Hi everyone, I looked around to see if I could find a good to-do list, but couldn't. I made this one up to help me stay organized and get things done. I tried to put it in order of when I would need things done by. I hope it's helpful! Ellen Wedding To Do.docx

I'm printing this right now. Thanks!!! Quote: Originally Posted by SDSteph Wedding TimeLine taken from Guide to Destination weddings Do your research (10+ months)Think about destinations Think about honeymoon too Figure out budget Consider what size wedding you want Select destination and look at locations Research wedding consultants Choose your timing Start Gown shopping Start Making Decisions (8-10 months) Invite your attendants Book wedding location Reserve rooms for your guests Create a wedding website Organize the guest lists Plan your scouting trips Begin selecting your vendors Book caterer if needed Book entertainment if needed Book photographer Book videographer Focus on fun Stuff (6-8 months) Send out save the dates Book wedding travel Book florist Register for gifts Choose officiate Order your gown Pick bridesmaid dresses Book honeymoon Finalize details (3-6 months) Find cake provider Pick out invitations Plan grooms attire Confirm local marriage requirements Get papers in order Shop for wedding rings Invite everyone (2 to 4 months) Mail invitations Think about wedding day hair Book hairstylist/makeup appointment Record Final RSVPs Make and or buy favors Shop for gifts Put together out of town bags Little Details (3-6 weeks) Arrange other wedding events Pre-wedding info packet Finalize ceremony Make a list of details you need to attend to The countdown begins (2 weeks) Get hitched if not doing legally in destination Confirm all travel reservations Organize wedding insurance papers Ship any wedding gear ahead Get gifts ready Finalize head count Pick up rings Call hotels Update wedding website Print programs or needed information Ready to go (1 week) Pack (see packing list) Finalize photo schedule Confirm Final vendor Meetings Pack up gifts and favors Update transportation providers Pick up your dress Have final beauty treatments Finalize seating plan Assemble trouble shooting kit Confirm guest reservations The day before you depart ( 3-4 days before the wedding)Touch base with point person Be in touch with wedding party Pick up tuxes Call airline Finish packing Get cash Create reception rundown Upon arrival (2-3days before the wedding)Meet with wedding coordinator Inform key players Check in with hotel Have final tasting with caterer Touch base with officiate if possible Finalize party plans Have hair and makeup trial Get dresses steamed Have family dinner Organize final payments Day before wedding Have bride and groom pre-wedding breakfast Throw attendant outing Do a walk - through Get manicure, pedicure, massage etc Greet and enjoy your guests Apply sunscreen!!!!!! Wrap up details at rehearsal Sort out receiving line Sign the marriage license Relay information Go to bed early

Thanks for the links!!! Quote: Originally Posted by Oxana Sh Hi) My wedding coordinator told me that sheers for the gazebo have to be 12 mts long x 1.5 mts wide. It was hard to find organza of my wedding colors. So I used http://www.tulleshop.com/Wholesale-Apple-Green-Organza-Fabric-p/310009.htm http://www.tulleshop.com/Wholesale-Baby-Maize-Organza-Fabric-p/310002.htm Colors of the sheers that i received were slightly different from the colors on these pictures( green-darker, yellow - much lighter), but they were still very nice. Also I've found on ebay a very nice seller dreampartycreation I ordered chair bows from them( very nice quality, love them); they also have a nice selection of organza bolts. However, their bolts are 50" wide((( Hope this helps)

This is great thanks!!! Quote: Originally Posted by jnitschke This is what I'm using a 54"x 10yd organza wrap for mine... but I also considered this http://www.efavormart.com/turquoise-polyester-fabric-bolt-5410.aspx and http://www.tableclothsfactory.com/satin-fabrics-tulle-s/116.htm both companies have a lot of variety.

This is such a great idea! I've already been trying to convince people but this is perfect. Thanks! Quote: Originally Posted by J-me For the Mexico brides: are you ladies putting anything on your website about the truth of the violence in Mexico? I feel like I should clarify that it's only specific areas of Mexico, not the media hype/generalization that it's ALL of Mexico - just to relieve any concerned minds; I'd hate for it to be a deterrant for any of my potential guests. I found this map that made it easily visible, but was curious if any of you have anything similar to this on your site? Any thoughts on if I should include a section on this?

Awesome! You are such a huge help thank you so much Quote: Originally Posted by elissae Yes, my guests used the chapstick & loved the idea of it! I used Avery #18863 - 2" x 4" Clear Shipping Labels. You are able to get 2 chapstick labels on 1 sticker. You will have to cut these though. I then purchased shrink wrap clear bands on ebay. I got 100 for $6.00 with S&H. I did not want the ink to smudge on the label. Especially if using them on the beach or by the pool with wet/suntan lotion hands!! Here is the template I used. Here is my Planning thread...if interested. http://www.bestdestinationwedding.com/t/81966/elissaes-rprm-planning-thread-for-april-2-2013-pic-heavy Freyer Fiesta Chapstick Clear label.doc

I love your guestbook! Could you tell me who the seller is on Etsy? I couldn't find anything by searching Lucunawork

This is a huge help MrsHK! Thanks so much for taking the time to put all of this together