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I was to be in a destination wedding in Punta Cana in 3 weeks. Now unfortunately, the groom suddenly passed away. The bride is obviously heartbroken and has a lot to deal with. We are all in full support of her and her choices. My issue... Our trips are all paid in full and to be honest I REALLY want to go on this trip as it was to be my only vacation getaway for the year. How do still go on the trip and not disrespect her? I'm open to going to another spot but I don't have the extra $ to spend rearranging my plans. I can get back the $ spent on airline tickets but it won't come till weeks after the vacation time. What the best way to handle this?