This has been the only thing stressing me out too. My fiance also has family here in the states plus family in DR. Drama! Drama!!!!! One of our biggest fears is that everyone will show up too. We had to sit down with my soon to be in-law as they felt they had to invite every member still alive on the island “Politicsâ€. They said they understood our request to keep it under 50, I hope that is the cast. We are sending out our save the dates on 7/15, we are trying to keep it at 50 guests. Most of our family and friends here in the states have also mentioned that they’ll be making a family vacation out of it. So now we have to count children. Shavon