Hello! I'm happy to have found this thread! We got married in January, our 1 month anniversary is coming up! We decided to TTC right away, we aren't getting any younger! My hubby will be 40 soon and he doesn't want to be chasing toddlers into his 50's. And according to the books my eggs aren't getting any younger either. We decided to wait until after the wedding to try, I didn't want to be pregnant for the wedding/honeymoon, I wanted to be able to have some drinks, plus I was really nervous about being sick. A bride with morning sickness - not cool! I didn't want to have to worry about finding a bathroom all the time when I felt nauseous.
As for making changes, I went off the pill back in May, just b/c I had been on it for so long, I wanted to get it out of my system, plus my BP was high and the doc suspected the pill had something to do with it. (I was planning our wedding at that time...I wonder why my BP was high?!) haha I was working out hard core and eating really well to prepare for the wedding, so that just fits into my lifestyle now, but other than that I haven't made changes yet. I will obviously stop drinking once I'm prego but until then a glass of wine is always nice at the end of the day! Oh yeah, I also started taking a prenatal vitamin in December, for the folic acid and other good stuff your body and future baby needs
I have been reading What to Expect Before you are Expecting, it's great! I didn't even know the book existed. It has tons of great information in it, I'm loving it.
Good luck to all you couples TTC, hope to keep this thread going!