aaaww girl! i'm sorry you are not feeling the support, especially after everything that you have done for your family. Hopefully they will come to their senses and step up to the plate for you. The best thing is to not rely on them because if you do, you will be disappointed and upset during the whole planning of your wedding. and you will end up missing out on happy moments and resenting them. you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family.......best of luck and i hope it gets better for you.