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Hahah awesome! I can see it now "YOU WILL FILL UP MY BOTTLES! IT IS MYYYYY WEDDING!!" hhehehe

Ohhh you are one of those people! HAHA kidding!!!!!!

Oh that is a good option.. but what about in the morning? Where is he getting ready at? I have just recently been thinking about the "night before" I wonder if he will want to stay in someone else's room hmm... I do know he doesn't want to see my dress until I'm walking down the aisle. Which is hard for me to imagine... he NEVER waits for anything.. like gifts -- if he knows i have his birthday/christmas gifts in the house he will bother me for them until I just give them to him.. even if it is a week away. *sigh* hahah Having them fill up your bottles is a great way to save some money! Do you know for sure they will do that for you?

I am usually on my laptop.. unless I am bored at work I get on with my phone... maybe they just updated the ipad version!

opps I missed this one when I replied to the other one.. Yes that info has always been there for me

Hahah I was thinking the same thing when I saw your post We can start a club!!

Hahah Yeah... I'm not sure I am!

Hmmm... I have always had those... So idk

Hahah - " I get so frustrated sometime i just wanna punch him in the throat." Girl - you took the words out of my mouth HAHAHa

That's great. I have never stayed at a Sandals before so I was just curious if the concierge/butler were worth it. When I look at the butler description I think - oh, we are not those people. HAHAH I really don't know if I see the need for a concierge room either - however the price difference between that and a none concierge room is very minimal and I know they can help me out with a few things that I am doing for my guest ... so I think I will end up going with that. Thanks for the info

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Oh also... I think different calendars would be a good idea so you can keep things in check for each event.. but maybe do a digital one... like Google calendars... you can have different calendars and color code them.. but if you want to look at them all at once you can - whiling keeping the colors codes visible. That way you wont double book and can really make sure you don't have too much going on in one month. AND you can share it with your FI so he will know what is going on - and maybe by seeing everything (with due dates) he understand why you need his help! Sorry I don't mean to sound preachy or pushy... I am just sincerely trying to help :hug2:

Oh wow that is amazing! I wanna go to both of those places too!! When you feel like you think he feels " a little hurt that I'm not all psyched to declare my undying devotion in front of the world" just tell him that you need his opinion because You want everything to be just right for Both of you at Your wedding.... Sounds like you two just have a lot on your plate right now... house hunting, amazing vacation, wedding planning on top of daily life. Just take some deep breaths - it will all work out. Maybe make a list of things that need to be done... or a few list for each major thing going on. Then set time lines for things to be done. Don't worry about getting everything done all at the same time. For example... for the wedding list - there are obvious things like -- Make STDs - Make Invites - Send STDs - Send Invites - Pick Flowers - Pick Linens - Buy Dress - Buy Accessories .. . . and so on... then get a wedding calendar... first right down all the obvious due dates.. like when to STDs .. then look at each month and figure out how much stuff is going on in the month. if you have 6 things that need to be done in August push back picking linens to September where there is only one thing that NEEDS to be done...... Does that all make sense? I know what I mean in my head HAHA

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Ooohhh right!! I see : ) So just keep reminding him that it was his idea to do this is the first place so if he wants His wedding to be how He wants it then things need to get done! HAHA Just tell him that I am having an October 2014 wedding and I am sending my STDs out soooon! Actually tell him it was my FI's idea! hahahah We are going on Vacation next month.. so that is all he wants to talk about... it was his idea to go and it is a short term goal. So I know exactly how you feel! Men are dumb HAHAH

I would like to say that mine has been like that ever since we started planning a wedding.... however, he is always like that HA! I have to either wait til he is in the mood to talk or trick him into listen to me when I want to ask him something and he isn't in the mood. Pouting works - but can't do it all the time cause that just annoys him HAHA One day when he was giving me the "yeah yeah yeah" I stopped talking - waiting a minute then said "do you want me to just plan everything by myself so I don't have to be bothered with trying to talk to you and get your opinion - cause that would be easier for me OR do you want to have a say in Your wedding - I just don't want to bother you if I don't have to" I was sure to say this with no attitude so he didn't get defensive. his reply "I want to be involved!" so I told him fine and that I will run things by him before I proceed but if he doesn't have time to listen I will just move on in whatever way I want...... he hasn't given me the "yeah yeah yeah" since. They need to feel like it was their idea - so I know he thinks I ask him because he told me he wants to be involved.... I know he still isn't always listening.. so if I need to I'll pout He did actually ask me one day "don't you have friends to talk to about this stuff" So if yours says that tell him YES - BDW so don't bother me while I'm on in.. even if it is "all the time" HAHAH

That was a quick decision!! hahah

cool. Thanks

Opps.. I meant to add that I too am trying to decide between two different "send off" ideas... I plan to give everyone a wedding day bag in the morning... So I am thinking about putting in both items - label them for the guys and the girls ... or something like that.

This is a cute idea! St. Lucia 10.22.14 Boston, MA

Hmmm both really cute! Can you do a combo of them? can you leave them on the seats and just do every other for each?

HAHAH - Just start posting one word at a time

Oh and same questions to you... ( I meant to quote you both but hit the wrong button hehe) Totally off topic -- have you ever stayed at a Sandals/Beaches before? Have/Are you staying in a butler and/or concierge room?

Totally off topic -- have you ever stayed at a Sandals/Beaches before? Have/Are you staying in a butler and/or concierge room?

So I had one picked out that I thought was Perrrrfect! Then I realized it was not because it is black. He will be wearing light beige and brown tones so a black watch will not work. I found one similar in brown... but it wasn't as nice. So I am on a hunt. . . The elements I want it to have are; Brown - so it matches Diamonds - I thought since he is giving me diamonds he should get some -- nothing too blingy.. like instead of numbers little diamonds Mother of Pearl - I thought since we are doing Mother of Pearl stuff for our parents it would be a nice touch... again nothing too much -- either the hands or the face could be Mother of Pearl... or both if I can find one that has both and isn't girly. As far as brand... I just don't know .. I need to find a couple options then look at the brand to make sure it is one he would wear