Hmm I think maybe you should do your first dance with your Mom... but since you are having your nephew walk you down the aisle you should do a special dance with him too. I'm doing my first dances at my AHR - in my head I have a great plan... will take some careful planning... I have to have a first dance with my Step Dad and my Dad... but what I'm planning includes my mom, step mom, and my FIs parents. The only song I know I'm going to use is with my Dad - "Every time you go away" He used to sing this to me any time it came on the radio when I was visiting him and had these stupid hand jesters to go with it HAHAH I have NO idea what any of the other songs will be.... I can't even get my mind to think about these things hahahah