That's what you should do then. Your style is important in this kind if thing. I want everybody who comes to our wedding to think "Wow. That was SO Steph and Tyler!"
That's too bad, but it still sounds really cool. I'll have to see if FH wants to do something like that (He would be in charge of designing it, he is far more likely to do it well than I am lol)
I'm sorry you're dealing with this. The only thing I can think of is to not discuss the wedding with her, and tell her when she brings it up "that's taken care of" and change the subject. It's so hard when somebody in your family is critical of everything you do