Since my bridesmaids are pretty spread out (Chicago, Hoboken, Orlando) I designed custom cards to ask them. I'll post a pic soon. For my maid of honor (and sister) I put together a box that included: a monogram bracelet, a really nice scarf, a gorgeous butterfly mug, a frame with a picture of the two of us when we were younger, candy, and finally a poem asking her to be my maid of honor