Hi brownsugar, Thanks for the great advice I'm trying my best to remain positive about it and you're right it is ultimately about me and the fiance'. I just want everyone to be as excited as I am and so far that is not the case. I've only been comfortable talking with my closest friend and my fiance' about the wedding. When I try to talk to family about it they're very tight-lipped, so I've stopped talking about it with them. Anyway, I'm hoping everyone will come around and I will try my best to keep it moving with my plans