Hey gals, well my dreams of having the reception at the Seaside Grill are crushed! It is an extra $2000! However, after looking at more pics of the Terrace I think that will be just as great! Does anyone know if they will reduce the cost of the package if you bring your own photographer? And also what if you forgo the cocktail hour? I could certainly ask Fatima and she has been wonderful about getting back to me quickly, but I know you all have likely asked these questions before. And, Jenny, I know how you feel about the undesired expanding guest list. We are dealing with the same thing with "long-lost" relatives tht we are expected to invite and are paying for the wedding ourselves.