Congratulations to you and your intended, knb! I have never visited Aruba, but from what my FI tells me, Aruba is a beautiful place. (We are having our event in Riviera Maya.) Have you checked out some of the reviews yet? The Westin seems to get good marks from brides, as does the Renaissance. Something that is really helpful is to chat with a good travel agent, who can give you insights into the different resorts you're looking at. Lastly, check out the threads for Aruba on the wedding and honeymoon boards---there are likely a few more brides honeymooning in Aruba than having their wedding there. I hope this helps, and welcome!