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moodyc82

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  1. My shirts came!! And with them i got coupons for vistaprint Lol
  2. We don't have the finacial means to have a child anytime soon. Gotta pay off student loans and cars before we can afford a house....kinda depressing. Plus we're not 100% sure we want a child yet. Kinda weird I know...
  3. yeah I'm not sure how much worse he can get LOL and it still hasn't been delivered and the mail has been......annoyed....
  4. Great job girl We don't plan to have children for a few years. I was thinking of getting the focuss25, how do you like it?
  5. *hugs* girl, he could of been born with a heart issue. I was and I constantly have to get my levels checked and things like that b/c I'm at high risk of heart attack. My father had his first one at 32 and I'm only a year and a half away from that age......
  6. Thanks girl No he will not be invited, he has chosen not to be a part of our lives at all ever and he has failed to get help when he has been told by the courts, by all of us, and by the doctors in the hospitals. I will continue to hild hatred in my heart for this man for the simple fact that he doesn't care about anyone other than himself. His mother fell down the stairs b/c he was too drunk to help her do laundry and would be passed out on the floor, in turn she died because of his neglect. I have zero respect for the man. Nop enot yet......say's its in transit today ugh No he's not getting help No she doesn't plan to babysit him lol and he is not getting help UGH that is horrible so sorry hunnie Thanks
  7. Glad going off the pill has worked for you, for me it was the complete opp. when I did it a few years back. That's how I gained 30lbs and was depressed etc......they say the pill helps regulate my hypothyroid issue so for now I shall stay on it. lol
  8. He doesn't want us written out of the will that's the only reason he considered it.....yet he's not considering MY feelings and whenever we try and talk about it it turns into a screaming match Maybe I should use this statement as my plan of attack, like it wouldn't be healthy for him to come b/c of the temptation, plus you can't turn a 67yr old alcholic into a non alcholic in a matter of a few months I think the headbank might be too much with the braid
  9. Oh god, I wouldn't want to be doing it there!!! Ugh ppl
  10. My point exactly ladies.....ugh glad I'm not completely crazy
  11. Thank you ladies for the support. His mother is pushing the issue b/c the idiot father said he would pay for her and his brother (yet they've been divorced for 20yrs). And FI only has thought about it b/c he's worth a lot of money and he is afraid if we don't invite him that we will be writen out of the will. I told him no money in the world is worth any of this drama......I'm not even sure how to get him to see my POV. Plus, my wedding invites are done and printed and his father isn't listed in the invites and I'm not changing them nor am I listing him anywhere. In all honesty I want nothing to do with him and i'm so sick of this wedding being all about what his mother and brother wants. Last I checked I'm the bride
  12. Ladies......I was a complete bridezilla last night.....and I think it is spreading into today as well. I need to vent a bit.....My FI's father is a worthless drunk. In the 3.5yrs we've dated he has never been around and my FI doesn't have a relationship with him. When my FI graduated the police academy this scum didn't show up b/c my FI didn't call him on his birthday......oh I'm sorry, but it was 3days before he graduated and passing the academy was a little bit more important. Moving on......so that christmas he decided to take Roy and his brother out to dinner and gave him a check for like $200 for a "graduation present". OK.....so that was 2011......now we never have really had contact with him since. We got engaged March 16th, Roy called his father to tell him we are engaged.....his father decided he wanted to take us out to dinner to celebrate our engagement. Well, this was April 4th I believe that we went (first saturday in April) and we are sitting in the parking lot of the restaurant waiting for his worthless father when we suddenly get a call from him (mind you it's 5pm). He calls and says he's lost........we immediately knew he was drunk b/c we were at the restaurant they always go to for the last 30yrs.......well, Roy gives him directions. 10mins later his father calls again that he's been in an accident.....at this point he is SO intoxicated that he can't even tell us where he is. Well every min for 15mins this SOB kept calling us asking when we will get there.....well we tell him to put a cop on the phone and he does and we find out where he is (literally 5mins from the restaurant). We go and there's 3 cop cars and a motorcycle cop and the damn women he hit. Well get this, this SOB hit this women at a light, and than drove 5miles away trying to escape......Well, it would of helped if he didn't leave his damn liscence plate at the scene of the accident!!!!!!! So, all he keeps asking Roy is "what are you going to do for me". Well, he gets arrested after failing the test, IN FRONT OF US. We end up having to call his brother to go sign him out b/c Roy can't because of his job and I can't b/c I'm his future wife. Well, lets just say they did this man a HUGE favor as far as not throwing the book at him. 3hrs after they arrest him they made him blow.....he blew a .30........3hrs later!???!!!~?! So we have to drive him home b/c they impounded his car....so the whole ride home he acts like nothing is wrong....and that now we're going to have to be a taxi service to him........They take him to court on that Monday and he gets his lis. taken away for 7months and when he gets it back he has to have the machine put in his car to have it be able to start when he blows in it........WELL, the next day while he's at work his mother (roy's grandma) (96yrs old) falls down the stairs and breaks her hip, shoulder, and leg. So now this SOB expects us to drive him back and fourth to the hospital every single day (they're 40mins from us). This went on until she finally died on June 15th......Now on father's day Roy decided to be the bigger person and call him, well the father wants to go out to dinner......we go and this SOB has a siezure at the diner b/c he didn't drink for 8hrs.....we rush him to the hospital and he tells the doctors and everyone else he doesn't drink......seriously?! So I left the room, not sure what was said to him by Roy and his brother but I know whatever it was it was harsh. Well, he was released the next day and given detox drugs and asked for us to go to dinner.....do you see a patern here? I never actually get to eat the dinner I'm invited to.......well, he acts like NOTHING happened. Nothing.....the doctor told him he is dying b/c of the drinking and he pretends like nothing is wrong.......I have not seen the man since. And since March I said he was uninvited to the wedding, that I'm not babysitting him in another country and I'm not having my wedding day ruined. Well, yesterday my FI was with his mother (ugh another long story, MONSTER-in-law) and she tells him he's actually been sober and that maybe we should think about inviting him.....girls I lost it.....I mean absolutely lost it and flipped out and said I didn't care if he was the king of Prussia and had a check for $2million dollars that I did not want him there and if he wanted him there than we are calling off the destination wedding and we'll go get married in Vegas.....I just can't deal with him being at the wedding with the thought of unlimited alchol around and available 24/7.....am I being an ass?
  13. Love the website angela! Mines nothing fancy but heres the link http://www.theknot.com/wedding/Roy-and-Cindy
  14. I think it should be the same, that way no one can tell.we had two different ones Yay!!!! Exciting i agree with the pictures, im a huge picture person
  15. We are going to get two starfish! OK so I need to mini rant.....my vistaprint order made it to my post office on saturday.......yet when I check the delivery status it says it won't be delivered until wednesday.....WTF?! It's just gonna hang out in the post office for 3 days???
  16. I love the second one Check out weddingchicks.com I leave on the 11th This is very cute Have a drink for us very cute I'd be pisssssssed Congrats!!! Don't think I've seen ya on here yet
  17. Good job today, my legs hurts from running this weekend and today is leg day with weights.....I'm gonna die tomorrow LOL
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