Great idea with the rum cake, will totally have to check that out! I saw welcome notes on Etsy that I was thinking of buying, they can word it better than me probably LOL. I was thinking of these drink favors, a plastic cup, liquor, sun screen, and chap stick as mini things for the welcome bag. Still not decided, at least I have some time! I can't really order that stuff until I get a def. number of guests anyways (waiting SUCKS!!!)