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TRUE, lol $25 month lol I went! It was a lot of fun, I'm exhausted now lol I like to jog with my FI, like we hiked yesterday and there's this 1/2 mile that is great for jogging so we jogged it. My mother doesn't have the fund to go so we had worked paying for her in our budget, but my TA said we actually will be getting back about $3,500 in credits after everyone books so that will pay for her, our flights, and the rest of our room! WIN. His mother complains about money but than goes out and spends a whole bunch on things she doesn't need or wants to eat out all the time so we refuse to help her out if she's not making an effort.

You're right....I just wish I had a gym partner to make me more accountable lol

My kickboxing is free, there is another girl on here who pays a lot for hers. You're 100% right in I'll feel better when I do it....it's just getting there LOL. If it was earlier I probably wouldn't be so unwilling.....I shall go b/c I slacked monday! But I did hike yesterday

Sister brides!!!! Tell me to get off my butt and go to kickboxing tonight.....i'm NOT motivated b/c its cold and rainy here and I'm tired......but I know I should go....ugh

Are you the one listed on the "extra" sheet?

We went for a hike today and were talking about how his family was acting and we decided we need some "we" time and are gonna plan a mini get away memorial day weekend and go hiking up in NH at Mt Washington and than focus on our Alaska cruise in June and when we come home deal with his mother's behavior We decided we will see what we have saved around March/April next year and than see if/what we will do for AHR. We're not going to go broke over this nor pressured by his mom to have one. I had no desire to go to the gym today b/c it was so nice out. So I opt for a hike instead, so much fun! I have the nike running app on my ipod that I use. There's the zombie running app that gives you challenges and stuff. I think the FIL would be 1937455715% worse if we were having a Jersey wedding, as of now his father is not invited to our wedding b/c of crap he did in the last month and a half. If it was here we'd have to have him come and more than likely he'd ruin the whole day. Ugh, we were the same with picking a place but finally I said f it. Dreams was the one I really wanted and it was in our budget so I booked it

That is the cutest thing I've ever heard!!!! I love love LOVE this!!

Do itttttt, lol. I'm addicted to it. Got a great group of friends on there that are very motivating

Awww glad you guys are focusing on things this way! We're going to have a long talk with his mother and brother when we get home and let them know how we feel and being that we're paying for it we're going to do what we want to do and that's that. They don't like they don't have to come.

We never get that many days together. He works over nights so I only sleep with him two nights a week! So vaca's are something extra special. I've never cruised before so I'm kind of excited. His goal is to hit all 50 states before he is 35 (he turned 31 yesterday) and with Alaska and Washington down in June he will have 8 states left! Woooo. My TA is my best friends sister so she totally gets it lol. It's been almost 2months for us and time does fly! Once we send out the save the dates in July times is going to fly by. And I need to have my guest list to my WC by March 16th 2014. So that's really not that far away. Than I can order the little things like chair sashes etc. Ugh...hate waiting

She's just crazy, typical italian mother.....and she thinks she's staying as long as us LOL....not happening, my TA already knows and plans on telling her there's no rooms available. Sorry, not spending my honeymoon with you lady! We're going on a cruise to Alaska!! We booked it last year and he actually was going to propose on the cruise but didn't want to wait So it will be a nice break before all the craziness begins. We had some other issues since our engagement involving his alcholic father and elderly grandmother so we haven't even been able to enjoy our engagement So I'm counting down the days until it's just me and him for 10 full days!!! Can't wait

OH I know the feeling girl, hang in there. His mother expects us to have a huge stupid reception when we come home and he straight out told her no, if she wants it than she pays for it. And that the only people invited to the wedding are our CLOSE friends and family. Like sunday she was over for the FI bday dinner and she's like well what friends are you inviting and I'm like the people in the wedding party (6 ppl all together) and that's that. She's like well what about blah blah blah and so and so, and I'm like we don't hang out with them. I'm seriously about to snap on her. Yet my mother and my grandmother haven't asked to invite anyone and are completely ok with EVERYTHING. Like seriously?! So than she's like well when do we have to book by? And I was like we put 10 rooms on hold and when they're gone they're gone and if the resort is sold out than there's nothing I can do so I would suggest you put the $50 deposit down sooner rather than later. Than she had a comment on dresses, about how I shouldn't get a heavy one. I was like I'm going to get whatever I look the best in. Like who care's if I'm hot if I look rockin in it! Smh.....I think when we get back from a trip we're going on in June that the shit is going to hit the fan with all this. Bridezilla here I come....lol

That's me and his family....his mother is driving me absolutely insane and I'm giving it all I have to not snap at her. She can't seem to understand why we're not inviting a bunch of people and she also can't seem to understand that we do not have a ton of money laying around and we're limiting ppl b/c of cost and b/c of the location we want it. The reception terrace we picked is only confy with 40ppl and still be able to dance. Finally my FI said to her if she thinks she's bringing a date (she's single) that she will be paying us $66 for him. (that's what it costs for anyone over 20 ppl). He said the same thing to his brother who is also single. On top of that his brother thinks he's going to tell me what he's going to wear and that just is not going to happen. He wants to wear a three piece suite and I specifically said no that is not what the wedding party is wearing. So if he continues she's about to be out of the damn wedding. What ever happened to it's the BRIDE's choice?

I had pizza last night....still logged it LOL, fiance's bday and that's what he wanted for dinner so who am I to deny him pizza on his bday?!

I love JM....I've done a bunch of her workouts and always get good results

You can do it girl!!! xoxo

Where in Punta Cana?? I'm getting married at Dreams in June 2014! I love kickboxing, I take it twice a week at my gym for free!! Whoop Whoop

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You're welcome! Ton of great people on there! Also, if you haven't checked it out yet look up www.skinnytaste.com . I love her recipes and they list the point for WW and everything. Haven't had anything I didn't like on there yet.

I weigh in every few weeks, usually the week after TOM. But i take pictures and measure once a month to see the progress. The scale lies sometimes esp when you're lifting

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That should be good, I wanted to do it earlier b/c my cousin works for a bridal designer and there's a bridal 2014 collection show July 20th/21st and she can get me a huge discount.

I've used it every day since Jan of 2012! You can friend me on there, username is Cindym82 Hi all, my name is Cindy. I live in Parsippany NJ but was born and raised in NY. I'm trying to lose the last 7lbs and tone up a lot. I'm 5'1 and currently 121.8lbs. At my heaviest i was 168, it was a looooong hard struggle to get where I am today and the last 10lbs SUCK! They just don't want to leave

I joined the app myfitnesspal and it helped me lose 16lbs and drop from a size 13 to a size 4 so I'd suggest using an app to keep you accountable for your food and exercise

I like your idea about the thread!