I feel the same way, it's not really in the budget but I would like to have it to show people who can't make it to our destination wedding, for example grandparents. Also would be nice to show at our AHR.
I think we'll have a BBQ for people at our house prior to going. We'll give out the bags then and it will be like a meet and greet for people who don't know each other.
@telicea7812 We finally decided on Royal Blue and Yellow! We both love blue so that was a given. The bridesmaids will be in the blue and yellow flowers! So excited!