Thanks for all of the ideas! The hand ceremony sounds beautiful! To honour our parents, my FI and I are hoping to do something a little bit different. We are currently teaching in China, and we are thinking about doing a simplified Chinese Teas Ceremony (even though we are not Chinese). Basically what the tea ceremony is involves the B&G kneeling in front of their relatives (parents, grandparents, siblings, aunts, uncles, etc…) 2 or 3 at a time, and serving them tea. In exchange they will receive gifts of gold and red envelopes of money. We were thinking of incorporating this into our wedding, by serving our parents (and only our parents) tea and receiving their blessing in exchange. We thought it would be quite nice way of publicly thanking our parents for everything they have done for us.