We too have been finding that everything is way more than we originally thought, although I suppose a lot less than if we were having the wedding in the states. Our budget is just based off our anticipated costs, we're still over a year away. We'll be doing whatever we can to cut this down, hopefully closer to $17,000. For 50 guests at Azul Sensatori (haven't booked but it's our top choice) Ceremony package: $2500 Cocktail Hour: $800 Reception: $1250 Cake: $600 DJ: $2000 Mariachi band (45 min - cocktail hour): $900 Violin (45 min - ceremony): $600 Flowers/decorations: $3000 Photographer: $2600 Video: $1000 Make-up/hair: $750 (incl BMs) Bridal dress: $3000 Grooms: $300 Bridal party gifts and OOT bags for everyone: $1500 Other misc: $1000 Flight and hotel for me and FI: $4000 Total: ~$27,000