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I do feel like mine will be on the longer side (at least 20 minutes) but I'm ok with that. I don't want to just barely walk down the aisle and it's done, ya know? I'm thinking I'll "practice" it tonight in my head and time it. I'll let you know what I come up with.

I ordered from there as well and 99% of mine were perfect. Maybe you just got a funky batch. :/

I think that is so sweet that its your parents anniversary!! I love that! If we were doing it ahead I would definitely do something like that!

I know what you mean! It was a daunting task. I think bc I'm overly sentimental I felt/feel like it needs to be just right! My FI is totally supportive and understands that's just the way I am, but he is also re-assuring me that hardly anyone will really even remember what was said, etc. I'm just glad it's done and I'm not looking at it again bc every time I do I keep changing things!! I just responded to your email

I think that sounds great!! It sounds like its sill an "event" so I think that sounds so nice! I just didn't want the for real date on our marriage certificate to be a day that we just ran down to the courthouse randomly. I am totally not against other ppl doing this, I am just a little overly sentimental. I also like that the people at yours will also be on MX!

I'm so excited I just had to share a quick snapshot of the personalized handkerchiefs I ordered for my parents, my FI, my FI's parents, and my flower girl. They came out really nice and were made and shipped super fast! I used etsy vendor "a pretty stitch"

Stina- The server isn't working correctly so I can't quote your question, but yes- we are doing the whole legal she-bang with the blood work and everything. Our intent was to just have the one ceremony on the beach and have it be legal, but bc it is legal, there is this awful official script they have to use and I was originally told it could be altered a little to my liking, but that wasn't true. The compromise we came up with is that we will have the legal one with the judge and my witnesses in the wedding office in the morning and then the "symbolic" but "real" ceremony in my mind, in front of the guests on the beach that evening with a minister.

Yay! Thanks for responding so quickly I'm glad to hear positive feedback. I want sure if doing hand ceremony and stone ceremony was too much but I love them both and they are so different. I also don't want it to go on and on and on but at the sane time I don't want to blink and it's "I do" "kiss the bride".. "See ya!" Haha Glad you like it... Feel free to use any or all of it

Ok girls, finalizing the ceremony script and making the programs has been on my list for FOREVER!!! I am doing this week. PERIOD! I can't stand it anymore and I need to knock these things off my list. We are having a legal ceremony the morning of the wedding in private bc I REALLY want the wedding date to be the date we chose- it's our anniversary! Then, the actual ceremony will be "symbolic." The reasoning is that I could not alter the legal script at ALL and it was AWFUL!! Here is the script I came up with (with a lot of help from the internet and BDW!!) Please let me know what ya'll think!! Symbolic Ceremony BRIDE: Megan King GROOM: Daniel Wilson WEDDING DATE: Thursday, June 28, 2013 WEDDING TIME: 5:30 WEDDING LOCATION: Beach Gazebo Music playing Guests are taking seats Processional: (different music) Seating of the Parents: Gary and Kathi walk down aisle As Dan walks my mom down the aisle, the BM and Minister take their places entering from the right and then Dan takes his place on right next to Mabry Bridal Processional: (diff music) Reyna walks down aisle Laura walks down aisle Caley walks down aisle Sylas walks down aisle Wedding march begins- dad walks me down aisle- mom stands to signal all guests to stand Giving Away of Bride: Minster- "Dually blessed is the couple which comes to the marriage altar with the approval and blessings of their families and friends. Who has the honor of presenting this woman to be married to this man?" Dad- "Her mother and I do.†Kiss dad, he hands me off to Dan. Dan and Dad shake hands/hug and Dad sits down. Opening Remarks and Welcome: Minister- “We are gathered here in the sight of God and these witnesses to unite Megan and Daniel in Holy Matrimony. On behalf of Megan and Daniel, it is my honor to welcome you and thank you all for traveling such a great distance to be here today as it is a testament to the amazing amount of love and support they have in each of you. Many of you have given them much happiness, unconditional love, encouragement, and guidance through the various stages of their lives. They would like to sincerely thank you all for being here to celebrate their big day. A special and respectful acknowledgement must also be made to those friends and family members who were unable to attend, or have passed on, but whose spirit remains alive and strong in all our hearts.†Opening Prayer: Minister- "Let us pray- Our Father, love has been your richest and greatest gift to the world. Love between a man and woman which matures into marriage is one of your most beautiful types of loves. Today we celebrate that love. May your blessing be on this wedding service, protect, guide, and bless Megan and Daniel in their marriage. Surround them and us with your love now and always. In your son's name, Amen." "You may be seated." The Charge to Bride and Groom and Pledge: Minister- “Megan and Daniel- This marriage ceremony does not mark the beginning of a new relationship. Rather, it is an acknowledgement and celebration of a relationship that has been thriving since you met. Marriage is the mutual commitment of two people sincerely in love who share the same dreams about life.†“More than that, it is the intimate sharing of two lives. It is a sharing that does not diminish, but enhances the individuality of each partner. The institution of marriage is not to be entered into lightly as it symbolizes commitment on every level. Together you will continue to meet the challenges and obstacles of life head on with honesty, integrity, and loyalty.†“This beautiful setting should remind us that, like the ocean, human life is an ebb and flow- spirit and emotions move in cycles. To be in a relationship does not guarantee an eternal summer. To make a sincere and honest commitment does not promise an end to all struggles. What a good relationship does offer, much like this ocean, is the opportunity for renewal. A successful relationship recognizes that after every fall and winter, spring and summer will come again. A flourishing relationship takes more than just love. It takes trust, to know in your hearts that you want only the best for each other. It takes dedication, to stay open to one another, to learn and grow, even when it is difficult to do so... and it takes faith, to go forward together without knowing what the future holds for you both.†Reading: Minister- "I now invite Kathi, Mother of the Groom, to read a passage from the book of Corinthians. Kathi- “If I speak with human tongues and angelic as well, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong, a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy, and, with full knowledge, comprehend all mysteries, if I have faith great enough to move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give everything I have to feed the poor and hand over my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.†“Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does not put on airs, it is not snobbish. Love is never rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not prone to anger; neither does it brood over injuries. Love does not rejoice in what is wrong but rejoices with the truth. There is no limit to love’s forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its power to endure.†“Love never fails. Prophecies will cease, tongues will be silent, knowledge will pass away…There are in the end three things that last: faith, hope, and love, and the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:1-8; 13†Vows: Minister- “Thank you, Kathi.†“Megan and Daniel, as you prepare to take these vows, give careful thought and prayer, for as you make them you are making an exclusive commitment one to the other for as long as you both shall live. Your love for each other should never be diminished by difficult circumstances, and it is to endure until death parts you.†“As God's children, your marriage is strengthened by your obedience to your Heavenly Father and His Word. As you let God be in control of your marriage, He will cause your home to be a place of joy and a testimony to the world." “Daniel do you accept Megan as your beloved and wedded wife, to love and honor her, stand by her side, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health for as long as you both shall live?†Dan responds: “I do†“Dan, please repeat after me: Megan, from this day forward I promise you these things…. I will laugh with you in times of joy… And comfort you in times of sorrow… I will share in your dreams… And always support and encourage you… I promise to love you in good times and bad… I will help you when you need it… And step aside when you don’t… You are my best friend… And I will love and respect you always!†Minister- “Megan, do you accept Daniel as your beloved and wedded husband, to love and honor him, stand by his side, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health for as long as you both shall live?†Megan responds: “I do†“Megan please repeat after me: Dan, I do not need you, I choose you! I choose you today in witness of all the people who love us, I choose you tomorrow in the privacy of our hearts. I choose you in strength and weakness. I choose you in health and dis-ease. I choose you in joy and in sorrow. I will choose you, over all others… Every day-for all the days of my life.†Minister- “Will everyone please rise?†“Will you, the cherished family and friends of Megan and Daniel, witnessing these vows, do all in your power to support them in their marriage, love them, and encourage their love for one another from now until forever? Guests- “We will†Hand Ceremony: Minister- “Thank you. Please remain standing.†“Megan and Daniel, as you stand beside the ocean, may your love always be as constant as the tide; waves flowing endlessly from the depths of the sea. Just as water is the eternal force of life, so is love. Love is the force that allows us to face fear and uncertainty with courage.†“You have just sealed your relationship with the exchanging of vows to each other as well as a blessing from your family and friends. Although you will be sharing one life, never forget that you are two separate people. Cherish and affirm your differences. Love each other. Keep your commitment primary. Together you will laugh and cry, be happy and angry, share and grow- sometimes together, sometimes separately.†“Before the two of you met, your lives were on separate roads ... each going in different directions and seemingly leading to different destinations. But somewhere along the way (through some twist of fate) you did meet, and you fell in love. Today, you find yourselves standing here together at the threshold of a new path, and have promised to forever join your once separate journeys into one.†“To symbolize this union and the importance of the individuals within the marriage, each of your family members and friends here today has been given a small polished stone that represents their unique individuality, the roles they played in your individual paths, and their presence at your wedding today.†“You also each have a stone of your own that symbolizes your previous separate lives, separate sets of friends, separate families and the different life’s journeys that you once traveled. I ask that everyone please hold the stone that you have been given. Fill your stone with hope, love, positivity, a prayer, or a blessing for happiness and good will for Megan and Daniel for the future of their marriage.†“Now, please come forward and add your stone to this vase, which Megan and Daniel will display in their home to be reminded daily of the love and support they find in each of you as well as your presence on this special day.†(Guests come up and place stones in vase- possibly play a song.) Minister- “The union of these stones has now symbolically joined your once separate lives. Through you, just as the stones have been combined, so now are your friends and family joined. Your once solitary life’s paths are also now one, and all that was once separate is now shared. In this sharing you both will find new strength and joy as together you forge a new life path.†“Stones stand the test of time. Over time they can even become stronger and more beautiful. Let these stones be a reminder and a memorial of the love, blessings and support that your family members and friends have provided you here today. And what God has joined together, let no man separate.†Exchanging of the Rings: Minister- “The vows which have been exchanged are but words that are fleeting and the sound of them is soon gone. The wedding ring is a symbol of eternity and the promises which have been made. It is an outward sign of an inward and spiritual bond which unites two hearts in endless love.†“Daniel and Megan please join hands.†“These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow, and forever. These are the hands that will work alongside yours, as together you build your future. These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, and with the slightest touch, will comfort you like no other. These are the hands that will hold you when fear or grief fills your mind. These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes; tears of sorrow, and tears of joy. These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it. And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.†“Our prayer for you today is that both of you will use these hands to build a marriage where all your dreams come true.†“And now as a token of your love and of your deep desire to be forever united in heart and soul I ask you, Dan, to repeat after me:†“Megan, I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows; and with all that I am, and all that I have- I honor you. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, with this ring, I thee wed.†Minister- “Now, Megan, please repeat after me†“Dan, I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows; and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, with this ring, I thee wed." Pronouncement: Minister- “I now pronounce you husband and wife!†Kiss: Minister- "Dan, you may now kiss your Bride!" Presentation of Bride and Groom: Minister- "It is now my privilege to present to you for the first time, Drs. Daniel and Megan Wilson!" Recessional: (music plays) Gary and Kathi exit Mom and Dad exit Wedding party exits: Caley and Sylas Laura, Reyna and Mabry Bride and Groom Group Picture and Toast

Ok girls, finalizing the ceremony script and making the programs has been on my list for FOREVER!!! I am doing this week. PERIOD! I can't stand it anymore and I need to knock these things off my list. We are having a legal ceremony the morning of the wedding in private bc I REALLY want the wedding date to be the date we chose- it's our anniversary! Then, the actual ceremony will be "symbolic." The reasoning is that I could not alter the legal script at ALL and it was AWFUL!! Here is the script I came up with (with a lot of help from the internet and BDW!!) Please let me know what ya'll think!! Symbolic Ceremony BRIDE: Megan King GROOM: Daniel Wilson WEDDING DATE: Thursday, June 28, 2013 WEDDING TIME: 5:30 WEDDING LOCATION: Beach Gazebo Music playing Guests are taking seats Processional: (different music) Seating of the Parents: Gary and Kathi walk down aisle As Dan walks my mom down the aisle, the BM and Minister take their places entering from the right and then Dan takes his place on right next to Mabry Bridal Processional: (diff music) Reyna walks down aisle Laura walks down aisle Caley walks down aisle Sylas walks down aisle Wedding march begins- dad walks me down aisle- mom stands to signal all guests to stand Giving Away of Bride: Minster- "Dually blessed is the couple which comes to the marriage altar with the approval and blessings of their families and friends. Who has the honor of presenting this woman to be married to this man?" Dad- "Her mother and I do.†Kiss dad, he hands me off to Dan. Dan and Dad shake hands/hug and Dad sits down. Opening Remarks and Welcome: Minister- “We are gathered here in the sight of God and these witnesses to unite Megan and Daniel in Holy Matrimony. On behalf of Megan and Daniel, it is my honor to welcome you and thank you all for traveling such a great distance to be here today as it is a testament to the amazing amount of love and support they have in each of you. Many of you have given them much happiness, unconditional love, encouragement, and guidance through the various stages of their lives. They would like to sincerely thank you all for being here to celebrate their big day. A special and respectful acknowledgement must also be made to those friends and family members who were unable to attend, or have passed on, but whose spirit remains alive and strong in all our hearts.†Opening Prayer: Minister- "Let us pray- Our Father, love has been your richest and greatest gift to the world. Love between a man and woman which matures into marriage is one of your most beautiful types of loves. Today we celebrate that love. May your blessing be on this wedding service, protect, guide, and bless Megan and Daniel in their marriage. Surround them and us with your love now and always. In your son's name, Amen." "You may be seated." The Charge to Bride and Groom and Pledge: Minister- “Megan and Daniel- This marriage ceremony does not mark the beginning of a new relationship. Rather, it is an acknowledgement and celebration of a relationship that has been thriving since you met. Marriage is the mutual commitment of two people sincerely in love who share the same dreams about life.†“More than that, it is the intimate sharing of two lives. It is a sharing that does not diminish, but enhances the individuality of each partner. The institution of marriage is not to be entered into lightly as it symbolizes commitment on every level. Together you will continue to meet the challenges and obstacles of life head on with honesty, integrity, and loyalty.†“This beautiful setting should remind us that, like the ocean, human life is an ebb and flow- spirit and emotions move in cycles. To be in a relationship does not guarantee an eternal summer. To make a sincere and honest commitment does not promise an end to all struggles. What a good relationship does offer, much like this ocean, is the opportunity for renewal. A successful relationship recognizes that after every fall and winter, spring and summer will come again. A flourishing relationship takes more than just love. It takes trust, to know in your hearts that you want only the best for each other. It takes dedication, to stay open to one another, to learn and grow, even when it is difficult to do so... and it takes faith, to go forward together without knowing what the future holds for you both.†Reading: Minister- "I now invite Kathi, Mother of the Groom, to read a passage from the book of Corinthians. Kathi- “If I speak with human tongues and angelic as well, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong, a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy, and, with full knowledge, comprehend all mysteries, if I have faith great enough to move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give everything I have to feed the poor and hand over my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.†“Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does not put on airs, it is not snobbish. Love is never rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not prone to anger; neither does it brood over injuries. Love does not rejoice in what is wrong but rejoices with the truth. There is no limit to love’s forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its power to endure.†“Love never fails. Prophecies will cease, tongues will be silent, knowledge will pass away…There are in the end three things that last: faith, hope, and love, and the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:1-8; 13†Vows: Minister- “Thank you, Kathi.†“Megan and Daniel, as you prepare to take these vows, give careful thought and prayer, for as you make them you are making an exclusive commitment one to the other for as long as you both shall live. Your love for each other should never be diminished by difficult circumstances, and it is to endure until death parts you.†“As God's children, your marriage is strengthened by your obedience to your Heavenly Father and His Word. As you let God be in control of your marriage, He will cause your home to be a place of joy and a testimony to the world." “Daniel do you accept Megan as your beloved and wedded wife, to love and honor her, stand by her side, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health for as long as you both shall live?†Dan responds: “I do†“Dan, please repeat after me: Megan, from this day forward I promise you these things…. I will laugh with you in times of joy… And comfort you in times of sorrow… I will share in your dreams… And always support and encourage you… I promise to love you in good times and bad… I will help you when you need it… And step aside when you don’t… You are my best friend… And I will love and respect you always!†Minister- “Megan, do you accept Daniel as your beloved and wedded husband, to love and honor him, stand by his side, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health for as long as you both shall live?†Megan responds: “I do†“Megan please repeat after me: Dan, I do not need you, I choose you! I choose you today in witness of all the people who love us, I choose you tomorrow in the privacy of our hearts. I choose you in strength and weakness. I choose you in health and dis-ease. I choose you in joy and in sorrow. I will choose you, over all others… Every day-for all the days of my life.†Minister- “Will everyone please rise?†“Will you, the cherished family and friends of Megan and Daniel, witnessing these vows, do all in your power to support them in their marriage, love them, and encourage their love for one another from now until forever? Guests- “We will†Hand Ceremony: Minister- “Thank you. Please remain standing.†“Megan and Daniel, as you stand beside the ocean, may your love always be as constant as the tide; waves flowing endlessly from the depths of the sea. Just as water is the eternal force of life, so is love. Love is the force that allows us to face fear and uncertainty with courage.†“You have just sealed your relationship with the exchanging of vows to each other as well as a blessing from your family and friends. Although you will be sharing one life, never forget that you are two separate people. Cherish and affirm your differences. Love each other. Keep your commitment primary. Together you will laugh and cry, be happy and angry, share and grow- sometimes together, sometimes separately.†“Before the two of you met, your lives were on separate roads ... each going in different directions and seemingly leading to different destinations. But somewhere along the way (through some twist of fate) you did meet, and you fell in love. Today, you find yourselves standing here together at the threshold of a new path, and have promised to forever join your once separate journeys into one.†“To symbolize this union and the importance of the individuals within the marriage, each of your family members and friends here today has been given a small polished stone that represents their unique individuality, the roles they played in your individual paths, and their presence at your wedding today.†“You also each have a stone of your own that symbolizes your previous separate lives, separate sets of friends, separate families and the different life’s journeys that you once traveled. I ask that everyone please hold the stone that you have been given. Fill your stone with hope, love, positivity, a prayer, or a blessing for happiness and good will for Megan and Daniel for the future of their marriage.†“Now, please come forward and add your stone to this vase, which Megan and Daniel will display in their home to be reminded daily of the love and support they find in each of you as well as your presence on this special day.†(Guests come up and place stones in vase- possibly play a song.) Minister- “The union of these stones has now symbolically joined your once separate lives. Through you, just as the stones have been combined, so now are your friends and family joined. Your once solitary life’s paths are also now one, and all that was once separate is now shared. In this sharing you both will find new strength and joy as together you forge a new life path.†“Stones stand the test of time. Over time they can even become stronger and more beautiful. Let these stones be a reminder and a memorial of the love, blessings and support that your family members and friends have provided you here today. And what God has joined together, let no man separate.†Exchanging of the Rings: Minister- “The vows which have been exchanged are but words that are fleeting and the sound of them is soon gone. The wedding ring is a symbol of eternity and the promises which have been made. It is an outward sign of an inward and spiritual bond which unites two hearts in endless love.†“Daniel and Megan please join hands.†“These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow, and forever. These are the hands that will work alongside yours, as together you build your future. These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, and with the slightest touch, will comfort you like no other. These are the hands that will hold you when fear or grief fills your mind. These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes; tears of sorrow, and tears of joy. These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it. And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.†“Our prayer for you today is that both of you will use these hands to build a marriage where all your dreams come true.†“And now as a token of your love and of your deep desire to be forever united in heart and soul I ask you, Dan, to repeat after me:†“Megan, I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows; and with all that I am, and all that I have- I honor you. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, with this ring, I thee wed.†Minister- “Now, Megan, please repeat after me†“Dan, I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows; and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, with this ring, I thee wed." Pronouncement: Minister- “I now pronounce you husband and wife!†Kiss: Minister- "Dan, you may now kiss your Bride!" Presentation of Bride and Groom: Minister- "It is now my privilege to present to you for the first time, Drs. Daniel and Megan Wilson!" Recessional: (music plays) Gary and Kathi exit Mom and Dad exit Wedding party exits: Caley and Sylas Laura, Reyna and Mabry Bride and Groom Group Picture and Toast

I totally feel you on the list being literally NEVER ENDING! haha I just feel like every time I think I've made headway, there's another thing to think about! Yay for being done ordering OOT bag things. I am done with that, too! Thank goodness!! It's such a nice gesture, and I had a lot of fun with them, but they were one of the hardest tasks! haha I hope the guests really appreciate them.. I know they will I would totally not worry about the turquoise matching perfectly! If anyone notices, just say "Duh... That's on purpose. I was going for the ombre effect!" haha I can't wait to see my dress again!!! I have my first big "post-alterations" dress appointment May 17! Oh my gosh... Etsy can be so awesome,but some ppl should not be vendors!! I had the same issue with an embroidery shop on Etsy that I used to purchase personalized hanky's from for the parents. Long story short, after a month I finally had the order cancelled, got my money back and I am now using a different vendor and the hanky's have already shipped. Good luck! I made my own bouquets using flowers from afloral.com and they came out really nice! Always an option.

Yay on all accounts!!! So I have kept the idea of a boudoir shoot totally quiet and my fiancé randomly mentions to me that one of his patients is a photographer and does boudoir photos....I'm like "why do you keep telling me that?" Lol!! After hearing of your success and learning that my FI is hinting for me to get them I'm definitely going to do it! I'm so happy you are happy with yours And congrats on moving!!! Yay! So exciting! I know you must be tired, but also so excited! Whoooohooo for count downs!! I can't believe we are already in mid April!!

Welcome to the June 2013 thread!! Sounds like you have a lot done!! yayy!!! When you say host gift- what do you mean by host? I mean, of course I know what a host is, but is someone hosting something for you at the resort? Sorry if this sounds like a silly question, I just don't want to forget anyone so when I read host gift I thought hmmm... Am I forgetting something? I am having a DJ and I am just telling him our music "style" and a few songs we definitely want to hear. Other than that, I'm basically giving him free range. I don't have a template, but ceremony program is definitely on my list for this week!! Good luck with everything!

My TA is Marcia. I feel like she is pretty good. I think she got us our upgrade confirmed back when we booked, but now I want to double check... Especially since I got the same email today!!! I was shocked to hear that our resort is totally booked! Good luck with getting the room you want!! Like you said, you deserve it! You are bringing them a lot of business!

My TA is Marcia. I feel like she is pretty good. I think she got us our upgrade confirmed back when we booked, but now I want to double check... Especially since I got the same email today!!! I was shocked to hear that our resort is totally booked! Good luck with getting the room you want!! Like you said, you deserve it! You are bringing them a lot of business!

The thing that confuses me most about this is that it's an all inclusive resort and gratuities are included. I feel like that particularly means for regular meals, drinks, etc. I will bring a few ones and smaller bills for throughout the week but I think I will mostly reserve tipping for my private events. That being said, I did read A Martha Stewart article on wedding tipping and she says (and I agree) that if someone owns their own business (DJ, photographer, etc) than you are already paying them their fee. They don't work for someone and get paid per job or hourly, etc. so they don't need to be tipped unless you really just feel obligated or they did an over and above job for you. I still don't really know what to tip the WC or staff at the private events, though. :/ I am going to keep in mind, though, that the American dollar goes really freakin far in MX, and this resort has already cost me an arm and a leg so not to sound cheap, but I'm not going overboard with tipping. I hope I didn't confuse you more, as you can tell, I kind of don't know what I want to do as far as tipping either.

The thing that confuses me most about this is that it's an all inclusive resort and gratuities are included. I feel like that particularly means for regular meals, drinks, etc. I will bring a few ones and smaller bills for throughout the week but I think I will mostly reserve tipping for my private events. That being said, I did read A Martha Stewart article on wedding tipping and she says (and I agree) that if someone owns their own business (DJ, photographer, etc) than you are already paying them their fee. They don't work for someone and get paid per job or hourly, etc. so they don't need to be tipped unless you really just feel obligated or they did an over and above job for you. I still don't really know what to tip the WC or staff at the private events, though. :/ I am going to keep in mind, though, that the American dollar goes really freakin far in MX, and this resort has already cost me an arm and a leg so not to sound cheap, but I'm not going overboard with tipping. I hope I didn't confuse you more, as you can tell, I kind of don't know what I want to do as far as tipping either.

Get outta here... I would be livid!!! Just out of curiosity, I see that you used destinationweddings.com and so did I... Who is your TA? On a resolution note- did you answer with "what are you going to do o compensate me?" If not you absolutely should! Put your foot down, be bold, and demand that they do something majorly freakin awesome to compensate you for their error! Good luck and worse case scenario... You'll be in Mexico, so if your room is a little "..eh" at least you will have a beach!

Get outta here... I would be livid!!! Just out of curiosity, I see that you used destinationweddings.com and so did I... Who is your TA? On a resolution note- did you answer with "what are you going to do o compensate me?" If not you absolutely should! Put your foot down, be bold, and demand that they do something majorly freakin awesome to compensate you for their error! Good luck and worse case scenario... You'll be in Mexico, so if your room is a little "..eh" at least you will have a beach!

Ahhh I love this!! I already have my entire script written.. I was doing the sand ceremony. Now you've really got me thinking about stones!

Ahhh I love this!! I already have my entire script written.. I was doing the sand ceremony. Now you've really got me thinking about stones!

The jewelry I ordered came today and I love it!! She included the earrings for free since I ordered a bracelet and necklace!

The jewelry I ordered came today and I love it!! She included the earrings for free since I ordered a bracelet and necklace!

Bulkapothecary.com Here are how mine came out: http://www.bestdestinationwedding.com/t/84966/my-diy-chapstick-labels-for-oot-bag-with-pics-and-template