Jaykay I think you had the right idea about the dance. I plan on doing the same. I also am doing the free wedding and just paying for the extra stuff I want. I plan in bringing a lot of my own stuff, like sky lantern, table favors, chair saches ext. I may go with silk flowers. Only because I want to keep my bouquet and I heard you can't bring them back. I saw some really beautiful orchid bouquets. I was very surprised. Theywere pretty pricey but it may be worth it.