hey, has anyone done the poolside reciption? not dinner, just the 15 per person 4 drinks and dancing? i was wondering what the set up looks like, pics would b awesome, or just to know works too, like r there twinkle lights? and tables and chairs? what shape r the tables, and how many people per table. trying to figure out how to decorate, thanks so much! oh and when do we pay 4 the wedding? before or once we r there? and who all had a semi private dinner at the mamee steakhouse? im thinking i will have between 20 and 30 people, and thats free right so long as ur under 40 people? whats the set up like and decorations? just want to make sure my budget is right, thanks ladies! im becoming one stressed out bride!