Hi everyone! I'm Sofia, I live in Calgary and after 5 years of dating I got engaged last Saturday . I have tons of time to plan my wedding, about 2 years, but i decided to start looking around and choosing things that I would like. Unlike many, I didn't have half my wedding planned before the engagement and I'm feeling totally lost. Here's what we do know that we want: We want a destination wedding in Mexico, either Mayan Riviera or Cabo. I want a hotel that will let me have a private reception for a few hours and that we can put music. I will not compromise the dancing We would like to have a cake made outside of the hotel. We're both Latin American and we know for sure they make better cakes than just icing. and...that's it! haha. So, I need your help. How do you even start to narrow down hotels? We're thinking of visiting Mexico in the summer and checking out some of our selections in person to make a final decision, but the list needs to be pretty small. Do any hotels offer a buffet option for the reception? The fiance would really like a buffet so we want to look into that option if it exists. What do you look for in a photographer? Did you find that a lot of people decided not to go because of the cost? I think those are the main questions that are just eating at my soul right now. thanks in advance!