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That's what I was thinking too, it will look great regardless . I also don't want to bring so many things plus paying for a huge set-up fee once I get there. Yeah it was Spence. First the wedding band didn't match because they didn't tell me to also send my e-ring when it got done, then I send them both back and they wanted to charge me but I told them it wasn't my fault. Then when I get it back, my e-ring was too big for some reason, even though it fit perfectly fine before. so i had to send them back again and then finally they were perfect thanks! yeah, my mom offered to make them to me for free, which is great and saves me on a lot of costs thanks! Yay, it's going to be the longest 6 months ever! hahaha. There's just a lot of things happening in our lives in these 6 months so it's super exciting

@@Teg07 from what I understand, once all payments are done. They just want to make sure you have the minimum number of rooms booked before giving you free stuff (in case someone cancels), then it becomes official, same thing with the free trips that you get. We got every 11th free, so we should have 3 . We would know this 3 months before the wedding, so if something goes wrong I'll have to start scrambling around finding someone to do my hair and makeup. I'm risking it because just with our two families we'd only be missing 7 nights to get the perks. I'm sure at least one more person would go! haha @@Smellsey I got the 14pp quote. I fought it because other people were getting different quotes, especially the one that was 9pp until 12am, but they're not budging so I gave up. We're just having the 4 hours and then moving to their club, where it's open bar anyways! hahah.

Yes we did . I know, especially as they turn into teenagers they'll need even more space I remember that trico homes was opening up some duplexes in Evanston but I never found out how much they were because we had just bought our house. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

absolutely! I agree, did you pick them on the same day as your wedding? The first time you see them you're like "ohh, ahh" hahah and then you calm down and become more selective probably . Let us know how the new one turns out. Where are you getting it done?

Oh that sucks! You know it's interesting that you mentioned this. as I was doing research for photographers some said that they dont sell prints of their pictures because they couldn't find a good printing service in cancun/playa. Our photographer includes some prints in the package, it was like $30 so we're like why not? Thanks for the tips though! I hope the second book comes out much better [emoji106][emoji4] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Oh that could totally be an option! You could do dinner at the pier . I wouldn't know whether you had to do it on the same day. I don't see why though. Other hotels have a rule that says that your reception has to be right after the ceremony or they charge you but I don't think that's the case with Karisma. It would be the same as having a private event, like the one that a lot of the US brides have for free. They choose any date they want but can't choose the venue until they get there because it's free but you should be able to because you're paying for it [emoji4][emoji6] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

noo, so I had made a suuper long entry and it got deleted . I'll do my best to replicate it. Ok so now the fun begins! The wedding band this was literally the first thing I bought. I spent more than I had hoped on it, but then I thought that if I was going to spend my money on something, this should be it. I'll be wearing it for the rest of my life! The band is a matching set with my e-ring, which actually took a lot of work to match. Long story short, it didn't fit well wit my e-ring so I had to send it back a couple of times until it finally got fixed. It was frustrating to say the least but now I can't wait to wear it The Flowers If there is one topic that gets me roiled up, is the price of the natural flowers at the Karisma properties. HOLY COW! that's all I have to say haha. To give you an idea, they cost more than what I would pay here in Canada, and they don't allow outside florists. So, I'm boycotting the whole thing and using fake flowers, except for my bouquet. This is what it looks like: and these will be the bridesmaid ones: The Ceremony So as I said before, I needed that terrace for our wedding! which we managed to get, for a surcharge of $1700 . We decided to pay it because it just went with what we had envisioned. We don't get much for the $1700, it's still basic decor, so just white garden chairs and you get some perks, but nothing like their $3000 packages, which is fine. I found this picture of the terrace at Azul Beach. I like the one at Azul Fives better but just so you can get an idea We are not doing much in terms of decor, just renting two white sheers for the gazebo and placing some pomanders along the asile in alternating chairs that I got from Michael's. This is what they look like, please forgive the fact that they're hanging off my cabinets haha, I wanted to see how they looked against white: That's pretty much it for decor for the ceremony, we might add a small (fake) flower arrangement on the table but I'm letting nature take care of the rest . The Reception Because I love that terrace so much, we're also having our reception here. We also upgraded this and we're paying a surcharge per person added on to the price of the menu. We decided on a buffet style menu a long time ago, even before we knew when or where we would get married. We just wanted our guests to eat as much as they pleased . We chose a BBQ style menu which has so many options that I think anyone would be able to find something they like. In terms of decor, I bit the bullet here, we're paying for one of the packages for the tables. These are not cheap, but I basically only have to bring my centerpieces. I posted a picture before and here is another one of how the place setting looks: Then these are the centerpieces I put together: The bridesmaid bouquets will double as centerpieces so there is less stuff to bring. The little blue round thing is actually a filled cookie called an alfajor. They're traditional in Argentina, where I'm from, and my mom has a business here where she makes them. Those will be our favors and they'll go in the little box. They can be stored quite well for a few weeks so they'll taste great even when bringing them from home Most of this stuff I got at Michael's, except for the lanterns (Ikea) and the favor boxes, which I got a long time ago from Ebay. They were one of the first things I bought and I paid somewhere around $36 for 100 of them. Then this is what our sweetheart table will look like. You really have to use your imagination for this one! haha it makes me laugh every time. The middle bouquet will actually be my bouquet. Now I realize I should have started this thread a long time ago. I just noticed I have a lot of things planned so I have to write these novel-sized entries to catch up and show you guys everything so far haha. Most of this stuff I've posted randomly in different threads but it's nice to have it all in one place. That's it for tonight. I think I managed to put everything I had written in my previous entry that got deleted. Next up, my personal favorite, the attire

Hahah, it was Gran Caribe Real. The price point was perfect, the location was perfect, their venues are beautiful but they put a lot of roadblocks for us to book with them so we had to move on. I don't hear a lot of brides getting married there anymore (at least from what i can assume reading the forums). When I first got here two years ago that thread was buzzing with brides. It's really too bad because their weddings were really nice and affordable. Maybe the hotel could be updated a bit but it wasn't a huge deal for us at least. That's what I keep telling myself about all the things I'm making, most haven't seen these things so they would never know haha. I have a couple of super crafty friends haha so they make me feel self conscious Yeah, @@Everly, the quote our TA had gotten us was good for 30 days for us to make a decision but nothing was booked yet. In those 30 days the resort gave us the ok for our date, only then we paid any money at all. @@MrsCtoB thanks. I finally got around to it! I'm heading to the gym for a bit and then I hope to keep on writing @@Kayla88 you totally should! First because I love reading them, and second because I think it really helps to organize ideas

There's 6 of us between bridesmaids and myself plus my mom. I'll look into it. A lot of it has to do with the perks I get by booking through a GI certified TA. I get free makeup and hair at the resort and the trials, so if that pans out there's no point in me going out of the resort but if it doesn't I have to start shopping around.

Maybe try going with only one or two people next time you try it on. I find sometimes the more people the more confusing it can get, especially when everyone is saying that they love the dress on you but you're not so convinced. I know! i wish I had more chances to wear a gown, any gown, not even just a wedding one

Thanks! We kind of laugh at our story because it was so Latin haha, it was like taken from a telenovela (Spanish soap operas). I guess the heart wants what it wants! I was pretty proud with the invites. It was my first time doing paper crafts, or at least paper crafts when it mattered haha so it took some trial and error but it was fun. For the reservations, we wanted to make sure they had a date that week before making the booking official. I'm sure it can be done either way. We really weren't picky about the date, so if they didn't have anything that week we needed to change the trips. I'm pretty sure it looked like they were separate for us, but our TA probably did everything at once. I remember she gave us the quote for the one week for our trips, then once Karisma confirmed that they had our date available we paid the deposit for the wedding and the trips.

Thanks! yeah I really loved those Moroccan looking lanterns that i've seen on blogs but I couldn't find any that wouldn't blow my budget for centerpieces so the ikea ones will do. I think they look nice, and yeah, people can either take them or I'm sure I can find a place to put them afterwards in my new home Michaels has tons of really nice flowers that look pretty real on pictures. Those ones came as a bouquet, the blush and ivory ones. They're not with the rest of their stems. At least the one I go to has a section with garlands and things like that and that's where they are. They usually have bouquets with different colors . Usually what I do is I comb through the store to get ideas and find the craziest things. It's very time consuming, but I have fun haha. I finally put my procrastination and insecurities aside and started a planning thread. It's where all the other planning threads are . I haven't added anything on decor, but maybe I'll find some time tonight to keep writing.

Will they allow you to bring outside bouquets? I think it's a good idea to o outside and get hair and makeup done. I would do the same but there will be so much going on that day that I have a feeling I would to insane haha Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

That's exactly how i felt when we booked ours. Up until now it was just a party, now there's real legal stuff going on! haha Don't feel bad, a lot of people take it as just a formality to get married before. We basically had no choice because my mom would have been beyond offended. I tried to tell her that we didn't want to make a big deal out of it and she seemed so insulted haha. She was like "well that's the one that counts!". Anyway, I had to put some limits because she would have actually planned a whole event if I let her. i told her that I basically have $300 for this thing including the officiant but she still wants to push for all these details. Do you think it would be a big deal for your family to not be there? Now i know my mom would have been super mad if I had gotten married behind her back hahah. It's just our parents and siblings for that day. If you're in doubt, they already paid for the wedding so they can't back out, you could always tell them and just have them over for the legal part , even if it's nothing fancy.

It's a really tough choice and I've been there before, but in a way I have to agree with @@LisaAnthonyPoppy. Take your guests as if they come in a non-negotiable package of 2. If a guest is really important to you, you have to take into account that they might come as a package with someone else, even if you don't really know the other person. It does feel somewhat unfair for others who get cut off the list, but at the same time I would rather have my A-list guests there, either with a plus one or not, rather than them not come in order for me to accommodate my B-list guests. I don't know if that made any sense?

I hesitated so much about posting this planning thread, but reading other people's has helped me a lot, so here is mine. I hope I didn't make it too long. I love threads with tons of detail. I tried to organize it as best I could but I have so many ideas running through my head that sometimes they're hard to organize . How we met: Juan and I met 7 years ago when a friend invited me to smoke some hookah and Juan happened to be friends with some of my friend’s friends. The second I walked in and I saw him, I remember thinking to myself “That’s one good looking guy!” We talked for a bit and when it got home at around 1:30am, I go on facebook and see that he has added me as a friend. Unfortunately timing was a bit of an issue for us. At the time we met he had a girlfriend, even though things weren’t going well between them and we definitely had a mutual attraction, I decided to walk away and not talk with him anymore. Fast forward 5 months, I went out with a girlfriend to celebrate that the school year was over and there he was! Up until that point I thought our attraction was something temporary, which was long gone, but the second we saw each other it was literally like a movie, and all those feeling came rushing back in one second. The best way I can describe it, it felt like pure chemistry, like we had known each other for ages. There was only one problem: I had a boyfriend then. Anyway, I decided to follow my heart so I broke it off with my boyfriend and decided to give this relationship with Juan a chance. Never in a million years would I have thought we would be here today. one of our first pictures together: Our engagement: Originally his plan was to propose on a trip we were going to take down to Mexico. He had reserved a private beach dinner for us. However he had some issues with a summer class he was taking and he needed to stay, right on the week of our trip! So that was wrecked proposal #1. Juan really dislikes celebrating his birthday but I wanted to do something nice for his 30th, so I planned a glow in the dark surprise party. My now MOH and I spend months planning this thing haha. As we were setting things up I get a call from Juan, and he asks “Sofia, are you planning a party for me?” he sounded so disappointed so I had to tell him the truth. He even sounded a bit mad, which I couldn’t understand why. When he gets to the party he’s not mad at all, he’s actually super appreciative of it. As we were dancing he says to me “tell them to turn down the music, I want to say something” and my response (which, to this day I feel pretty dumb about about haha) “wait! I love this song!” *facepalm. So anyway, we turn down the music, and he starts off by thanking my friend and I for putting together the party and saying that he wanted to do this a while back, while in Mexico, but that he couldn’t… and that’s when my mind goes blank because it started freaking out haha. All I remember was that he went down on one knee and everyone was cheering while I was trying to keep it together and not cry. I couldn’t say yes, I could only nod and hug him. Out of all the people at my house he had not told anyone he was going to propose, so there are barely any pictures. I think everyone was as shocked as I was haha. Then the truth comes out, he had actually planned a romantic dinner that night, he had reservations, flowers arranged, everything. He knows I like to celebrate birthdays, and since he doesn’t like celebrating his, then he thought that at least I could celebrate our engagement that day J. Then he found out I had planned the party so he had to go and cancel everything. That’s why he sounded so disappointed on the phone haha. So, that was wrecked proposal #2 but I guess the third time is the charm! haha This is the only semi-decent picture we have of that night right after he proposed: The e-ring: I chose my own ring. We were supposed to go see what I liked one day so he’d have an idea when he actually went shopping. As soon as we came out of the store he says, “I bought the ring”. I was like “what!?” (btw he sucks at keeping surprises a secret). Anyway, he upgraded the diamond from the one I had picked and I have to agree it looks nicer J. Here is a picture of it: Our idea for a wedding: Juan told me he wanted a DW ever since we started talking about marriage. He was super determined about this, no budging. I didn’t really care either way so we went with it. However, I did not want a super intimate wedding, with a simple white dress, my hair flowing freely in the wind with our toes on the sand. That’s what scared me a little bit about a DW at first because these were the only type that I had seen. Then luckily I found this forum and began to realize that DW are as varied as any other event. We soon came up with our wishlist. Our resort needed: · A venue for the ceremony that was not on the sand, a gazebo, or even better, some kind of terrace would be perfect · We needed to fit around 50 people · Affordable – we were thinking at around $1500 · Probably somewhere family friendly. We’re at the age when everyone is having kids so we didn’t want to leave anyone out. · A place where we could have a private reception · Somewhere close to an active nightlife We ended up choosing Mexico, mostly due to costs but also because we like it. It’s also a fairly short flight compared to other destinations. Choosing the resort: I think finding the resort was one of the hardest parts, and me second-guessing everything did not make it any easier. I went through these forums doing research and narrowed it down to 3 places. We were planning a trip to Cancun so we thought why not check them out? We pretty much picked one hotel when we came back but it was still too early to book so we waited another year (longest wait, ever!) As we got closer to at least the year we’d be getting married in, we decided to look for a TA. A member here in the forums recommended us LaurieLee so we met up with her. We were sold after the meeting with her so we didn’t shop around or anything for other TAs. We told her about the hotel we had seen in Cancun. Unfortunately when she got prices for us it was not good news. The price was right, but this resort wanted Juan and I to put down $150 for each guest (non refundable) in order to reserve the spots, so it was back to the drawing board because we didn’t want to take that risk. I was pretty frustrated that we wasted that trip checking out hotels, which none ended up working out, but oh well. So my suggestion, get a TA first, even if your wedding is far away. Our TA suggested a couple of resorts to us and we totally fell in love with Azul Fives, or at least I did. I just needed that terrace! If Juan wanted a DW, I wanted to have it on a terrace overlooking the ocean. The hotel itself was $100 more expensive than our original budget for the cheapest room but I just couldn’t resist, and Juan “agreed” haha. How the weddings work at Azul Fives: I was beyond confused about all of this. I think I spent a week trying to figure out if we could even afford having a wedding at this beautiful hotel. Their website is so not user friendly and there was such little info out there when we booked! This is why I'm including this. This resort doesn’t have predesigned packages like a lot of other hotels. You pay the basic and then it’s pretty much all a la carte. Long story short, unless you’re in the States, you pay $950 for a basic ceremony (which is free for US residents). I thought this was free for Canadians as well but their small print wasn’t clear enough, and there’s no arguing now. Then the fun begins because you can truly blow that pesky budget out of the water if you let yourself have everything you desire. There are so many upgrades, so many things you can rent out that you can truly go crazy. For starters, you can have one of their packaged ceremonies for $3000. They’re beautiful, you basically get a ceremony fit for a beach princess, but we couldn’t justify spending such a huge chunk of our budget on something that is over so quickly. We’re going for something simple in terms of décor, but I’ll get into that later. The thing about Azul Fives is that you can have pretty much anything you want, but it all comes with a cost, so beware. I still wouldn’t change the hotel. As much as I sometimes complain about their high prices for everything, this is really my only complaint so far. It has pretty much everything that was on our wishlist and the communication with my WC is great, everything seems to be smooth sailing so far. Choosing the colors: I think I changed our colors every week at the beginning haha. Juan was of no help here because I think all men are partially color blind. They only see primary and secondary colors. I kept asking him and his response always was, “as long as it’s not red I’m good”. You know how many freaking colors are on a color wheel that are NOT red?! When I saw the pictures for one of Karisma’s packages I immediately decided, I loved the vintage elegance theme. It just kind of goes with who I am and Juan was just kind of like “whatever you want, they all look nice”. This is what it looks like: Colors were set, theme was sort of set. In hindsight maybe I should have gone with more of a common color, because a lot of things would have been easier to find, but I still love it. Getting people booked: We’re in Canada, which means that we usually get our hotel, flight and transportation bundled into one. The first thing we did was reserving the date for our wedding. Our TA took care of that. Once that was confirmed and we had an actual date, then she made the room block for 30 people with the tour company, Transat. Our guests had 90 days to put a $150 deposit and now they have until June to pay the full balance. Our TA provided us with an electronic save the date. It wasn’t anything crazy really. I created a canned message on gmail and then added a little message for each person before sending it off. LaurieLee has been amazing so far about getting people booked, etc. so if anyone needs a TA in the Calgary area I wouldn't hesitate to recommend her, especially if you're thinking of using a Karisma resort. Our website: We made our website before we sent our STD so we could include the link on there. It was hard to choose a website. We decided to go with Weddingwire. Again, sometimes my color choices came to bite me in the ass. It was hard to find a website that had similar colors. The main purpose of the website was to get people to book. I had included pretty wording, etc. until I realized people don’t really read so I changed the information to be point form in some parts. You can check it out here: www.weddingwire.com/sofiaandjuan The process of making the invites: We handed out invites about a month before our booking deadline. Most of our guests live in the same city, so we personally delivered them and mailed out a few. We didn’t really shop around for invites. I didn’t want to spend a ton of money on these because most people just throw them to the garbage, so I’d rather spend that money on the wedding itself. We decided to go the boarding pass route and DIY. My mom is pretty creative and she designed them on photoshop. In terms of printing, I tried printing them in the two printers we have but since the background was colored they looked pretty amateur. We sent them to be printed at Staples, I can’t remember exactly how much we paid but it was less than $1 per page, and we had two invites in each page. I chose a glossy cardstock. They cut them for us, we just had to go through and cut the rounded corners with a puncher. We made the invites only one page each. In hindsight, I really wish I had included more information and made them more than one page long. For the envelopes, I bought some pearly ivory paper at Michael’s (with a coupon of course), and printed each envelope with the guests names at the back. Our envelopes were pretty simple, they didn’t have a slit or anything like that but, meh. There are definitely some nicer ones out there in these forums. My mom has an embossing machine and I thought, “why not use it?” It took quite a few tries because I kept getting crease of the edge of the folder on the envelopes. Thanks google for the solution for this. I loved how that turned out and so did our guests. It was time consuming, as I had to roll each envelope through the little machine twice. But it was worth it. We made a joke with my mom that I looked like I belonged to the Ingalls family haha, so low tech. I used a bone folder to create the creases and fold the envelopes for them to look cleaner. I had bought a Martha Stewart glue pen to put them together. What a piece of crap, don’t waste your money. The envelopes started to come off within a few hours, even though we left them pressed for a whole night under some books for the glue to stick. The pen also dried out after two uses. We had to glue the envelopes all over again, this time with old school glue. I used the useless pen by dipping it into the glue and then brush it over the envelopes. That did the trick and they looked fine. Here's us in our little invite making party: I bought some stamps from Michael’s as well that were travel related, so we stamped the invites and the envelopes. Then I made little ribbon bows and I glued them with a hot glue gun to close the invites. This was the finished product: Everyone really liked them. They’re not the nicest ones on this site but at the end of the day they’re just invites and I can bet you ¾ ended up in the garbage. Then the waiting began…. About a week before our deadline the only people booked were us, my family and 4 friends (my family because I basically sat them down one day and forced them to book, I told them that they needed to make me feel better hahah). We sent out text messages to everyone reminding them that the deadline was that week and that otherwise they would lose the special pricing. We only sent these to the people who expressed some interest in coming. Most people booked in the last couple of days. I was freaking out, thinking no one would be there but most came through in the end J. Right now we officially have 42 people and 3 kids and still waiting for quite a few more, so this could explode any minute. Otherwise I’m more than happy with 45 people. Next, the fun really begins with all the planning!

I love it!! haha such an awesome story

Yeah I have no clue about all this stuff either. I basically go by what the mortgage lady told us haha. We were on the same boat. I want to go back to school so we need to afford this on one income for a few years. You can always check out where we bought. They just released the new phase and you might like the prices . So far we're happy with our experience. I live in Conventry right now. I like it here . I love that it's so close to Deerfoot and Stoney!

The only thing that makes me feel better is that every time I like a dress, it looks like mine haha.

I'm super happy with our number right now but I would really like at least some of the fiance's friends come. That's great! Yeah usually the summer is a bit more of a buyers market, which is good in terms of interest rates because the banks drop them to get more clients so you always win some and you lose some I guess. We need to change our mortgage from a builders mortgage to a buyers one this spring/summer once we get a possession date so I'm hoping that will work to our advantage . Any ideas where you're going to look? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

@@malyna I had to do the same as @@calgarybride2015. The other day we went bridesmaid dress shopping and I was like "no, must not look at any more wedding dresses!" haha, otherwise the doubt always comes in your mind as to whether you could have found something better and I think it's normal for everyone. Honestly I love mine and when I put it on I have no doubts at all. If you try it on and it still doesn't give you that feeling of "holy crap I look good!" then maybe consider changing it. As my fiance says, you could always find something better if you look for long enough, but are you happy with the decision you made? My biggest regret is not trying on more dresses haha, but i've always been like that, I find what I like right away. I know some girls who literally tried on hundreds of dresses and became more undecided with each one.

Officially and booked, we're at 41 adults and 3 kids. We're still waiting on 13 more. The boys still haven't booked anything, whether on their own or with our group. We talked with Juan this weekend and he said a lot of them are waiting to get jobs after graduating in May so if they find jobs they'll come, which is understandable. I'm hoping for the best, given that some of them are graduating from oil and gas engineering , not a good year for them sadly. Other guests said that they'll be booking on their own because they have credit card points or they're trying to get pregnant. We'll be following up with everyone in June to finalize numbers

Now that I think back, our booking deadline was exactly a year before the wedding . But we booked the hotel a year and 3 months away, guests had 90 days to make their deposits Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Us and our guests booked 1.5 years before. Some were still undecided due to changing finances, but most booked at that time. I agree with Calgarybride I would lock in your hotel and date before getting the photographer, only because if your date is not available and need to change it, if your photographer is not available on the new date you might lose your deposit. It just gets more complicated to then try and change dates to your photographers availability. Some people will tell you that it's too early but I thought it was good Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Thanks for posting these. My MOH is a graphic designer and she kindly offered herself to design these for me. I couldn't find any good pictures to send her though for ideas so this is perfect Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk