I am also getting married at the now jade and I completely understand about being overwhelmed! It took me a couple months to research places but I also ended up using destinationsweddings.com to help me. My guests are paying about $500 pp for 4 nights and $1000pp for 7 nights. That is for the cheapest room. The wedding packages I feel are great with the different options they offer and there locations for the ceremony, cocktail hour and dinner are also all beautiful and you have different options. We are getting married on the beach having cocktails at mix bar and reception dinner at carnival terrace! Although im still in beginning planning stages Feel free to ask any questions,as I just confirmed my date last week! Happy planning