my fiance and I get into little arguments here n there as well.....i think that's perfectly normal....I feel as though he's not putting "enough"effort or time into he wedding....but then my girlfriends are like "you REALLY want him picking flowers? or shades or blue for decor? that's not a GUY thing so dont expect him to be THAT involved" ....which is true.....wedding planning is what all (if not, most ) girls look forward to......i know it's been exciting for me....and sometimes i DONT want his opinion....i choose...i show him...he nods yes....and if he nods no, i will tell him allllll the reasons why it should be a YES! lol....he's easy going...there are some things that he wants specifically and he won't settle for anything else, so i've made sure to take that into account. But yah...i'd say have a date night...reconnect and re-discover WHY it is that you agreed to marry him in the first place.....Have a "no wedding talk" day...and just go back to the couple that you were pre-engagement