Kiska, that is so exciting, your big day is almost here!!!!! I would greatly appreciate any and all advice you can provide I am trying to keep in mind that a lot if things will be out of my control and to be somewhat laid back about the whole thing. I know that every little thing is not going to be perfect, but what could be better than getting married in paradise!! We only plan to have 25-30 guests, sounds like it is expensive once you get above 50.