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Thanks Kard my heart says Stop and Go.. how should get any choice for the 2 ways?

hi Mandie Its not just my parents want me so, it's also because I am pregnant. They want to have my dignity back.. I am a Filipino and it's part of our culture that we MUST have a husband as we have a child. Well not all of us but then my 'family tree' do practice such norms. I can't barely understand my feelings, sometimes i get excited but most of the times confused. Thanks Lyn

Hi, I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013. I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS (most of the time DOWNS) Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding. I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married. He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old. He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow. I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan. He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON. I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED.. Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake. I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS. Can someone advice me what to do? I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up pregnant and doesn't have a husband. your opinion will be much appreciated. Thanks, Manilyn

Hi, I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013. I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS (most of the time DOWNS) Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding. I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married. He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old. He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow. I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan. He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON. I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED.. Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake. I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS. Can someone advice me what to do? I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up pregnant and doesn't have a husband. your opinion will be much appreciated. Thanks, Manilyn

Hi, I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013. I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS (most of the time DOWNS) Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding. I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married. He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old. He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow. I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan. He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON. I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED.. Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake. I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS. Can someone advice me what to do? I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up pregnant and doesn't have a husband. your opinion will be much appreciated. Thanks, Manilyn

Hi, I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013. I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS (most of the time DOWNS) Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding. I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married. He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old. He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow. I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan. He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON. I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED.. Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake. I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS. Can someone advice me what to do? I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up pregnant and doesn't have a husband. your opinion will be much appreciated. Thanks, Chai

Hi, I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013. I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS (most of the time DOWNS) Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding. I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married. He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old. He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow. I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan. He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON. I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED.. Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake. I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS. Can someone advice me what to do? I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up pregnant and doesn't have a husband. your opinion will be much appreciated. Thanks, Manilyn

Hi, I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013. I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS (most of the time DOWNS) Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding. I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married. He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old. He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow. I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan. He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON. I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED.. Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake. I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS. Can someone advice me what to do? I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up pregnant and doesn't have a husband. your opinion will be much appreciated. Thanks, Manilyn

Hi, I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013. I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS (most of the time DOWNS) Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding. I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married. He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old. He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow. I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan. He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON. I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED.. Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake. I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS. Can someone advice me what to do? I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up pregnant and doesn't have a husband. your opinion will be much appreciated. Thanks, Manilyn

Hi, I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013. I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS (most of the time DOWNS) Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding. I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married. He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old. He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow. I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan. He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON. I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED.. Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake. I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS. Can someone advice me what to do? I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up pregnant and doesn't have a husband. your opinion will be much appreciated. Thanks, Manilyn

Hi, I am Chay, can be called as "undecided bride". I am getting married this January 30, 2013. I am happy with my partner and I do love him so much. The thing is, I am 3 months pregnant. Yes we are planning to marry, but then my parents took the SOONEST date of the wedding, At times, I got excited but there are ALWAYS times for confusion. Because it's not me who decides, I come up with second thoughts. I ask God for help, He gave me signs, still I can't make up my mind. Too confused and too distracted. The reasons behind my confusion: first : my fiance is not responsible enough in having or building a family. I can even clearly see it to him. But then he is willing to do so. second : we didn't plan this, our parents ONLY decides for what to do. and lastly : I AM STILL NOT SURE OF MY SELF. Will I get into this life long relationship. I may be pregnant, but is it an assurance to make a HUGE decision in life? My parents protects for the name of my family, and I understand them. But how will I ever have a good marriage life if in the start it wasn't about us who decides? Can someone give me some advice? Thanks, Chay