Great Advice Jello.....thank you so very much!!!! I especially enjoyed 2 specific comments of yours: "I never bought into the whole "your wedding is the best day of your life" thing, but that truly may have been the best week of my life. The experience of being surrounded by family and friends in a gorgeous tropical setting, seeing old friends reconnect, watching grandmas dancing with little kids, drinking tequila with your best friends and jumping in the ocean... I can't even describe it. It was everything I hoped it would be, and even better." and "This is going to sound super cheesy, but it's true: the love between you, your new spouse, and all the people there for your wedding will just completely overpower everything else. Even if we had gotten married in a parking lot in the pouring rain with no food, everyone still would've been thrilled for us and we still would've had a great time. " Thank you for putting things in perspective...and not "chessy" at all! Oh and Congratulations !!!!!!