No worries Kal520, I only just picked mine up and I leave for Sunday ...I didn' even go for my first fitting until last week LOL...I was losing weight and didn't want to til the last minute... my seamstress said the same thing as ChocoTaco...it's over kill but they put those weeks in for buffers. ...My seamstress did my alterations in 2 days, it's all good and it will be beautiful When I picked mine up this morn it was perfect!! fit like a glove! ..after only one fitting/alteration Your all good I leave Sunday ladies...and I still haven't written the ceremony script, my speech, picked my music, done seating tables/ or packed for my fiance and I. (kids are packed) ...freakin out a bit...tomorrow spa day all day and then all I have is Saturday and that's hair day...so really only 1/2 day to do everything!! LOL Anyone have a sample ceremony script that has sand ceremony or kids as part of the ceremony?