@ Jreist: Sorry to hear you had a tough night. I'm sure I'm going to be the same way, so hopefully, I can arrange to have the bachelorette party the same night, or at least have people over, so I'll be too busy to think about the FI. Thanks for the heads up, and best wishes with the exams! PS. I don't know if it's because I was thinking too much reading your post. I had a bad dream last night about my FI going out to meet with one of his ex-sleeping buddies (who I REALLY dont like and gets bad vibe she wants Richard back) behind my back. In the dream, we got into this big fight cause the FI said it was no big deal. Only waking up to no comfort from him whatsoever. Only thing he said to me about the dream was... "why would i be eating dimsum?" Guys. So insensitive sometimes. Sorry... Just ranting!