Getting married at the Grand Oct 12, 2013. Like you we vacationed there in 2011 and loved it so much that that we are going back for my weddinggggg. The thing with beach wedding is that you will always have people watching as we watched while there but when you stay at a place that has standards people respect your privacy. I watched several wedding as did others from afar but if its outside then people will be there, they have it at a time when a lot of people are inside and taking a break. You need to find you a good TA. I have people coming in from all over we did group travel options. I am my own TA so it worked for me. Find you one and they can help you with those details.