Just try to keep in mind it's your day and no one can take that away from you. Plan for you and the guest that are coming and have a blast with them and try not to think about the ppl that can't or won't be going. Originally I had planned for a few guest, just my immediate family but then when we sent the save the dates I got a lot of positive feedback n many ppl that I thought wouldn't be going said they really were excited to be there. Well to date only the immediate family has booked, it bummed me out a little b/c I had gotten excited about seeing the others I hadn't expected but looks like many are probably not going. So back to square one but its fine we will all have a blast regardless.