I have a few more questions about the poolside reception; Do most people take their centrepieces from dinner outside to the poolside? Is there a server and a bartender or just a bar/ bartender? I have read on here before that sometimes if you go with the 'basic' bar,(beer, wine, pina coladas) they will upgrade you to the better one (if you tip). My fiance's family is from Trinidad, and like their RUM! I don't want to pay extra for the hard alcohol if we can get it with just a few tips....does it depend on the bartender? Any advice would be appreciated! Does anyone know if they make sangria? Would that be included in the 'basic' bar? THANKS!