It just being us and the kids is a real possibility and I am honestly okay with that prospect, I hope not bit I have come to peace with it. We will not be having a AHR and this is a renewal for us we had A HORRIBLE elopement at city hall, so I really hope our families will come, but in the end it's about us and our children. As long as the hubby doesn't say " sure, I guess" to the question do you take this woman? I will be happy.