This thread really helped today. I am feeling truly discouraged. I am working in an amazing once in a lifetime memory for our families and the lack of caring is getting to me. We found both of our sisters may not be in attendance, for their weddings we were really involved either/and/or hand in I'd financially and they don't know if there are going to choose to attend they make good money. I understand that my wedding does not have to be their priority to spend they money to go, but would it kill someone, my mom, my sisters to GAF? To ask how things are going, how can I help? Heck say anything aside from let's pick the cheapest place on the island. The messed up part is if I did that I would hear, the venue was tacky, raggedy, exc. no win!!! I know it's about us and our children at the end of the day, but I am hurt.