I already consider myself the "off beat bride". I don't like rules and confinement into a norm. Gratefully my family understand that and support me. My bridesmaids are wearing simple dresses, but with colored petticoats. And if I can convince FI, everyone in chucks! If not, my son & I will wear them for sure. I am just starting planning but the ideas I have so far, are raising some eyebrows!