I agree with agm04! If you had a larger wedding at home, it would cost about the same as a more intimate wedding abroad! plus, you're not really paying for just 1 night, it's a vacation and a weekend experience with your closest friends and family! one of my friends keeps telling me "this cuts out the riff raff" haha! and it's true! of course there will be some people who can't make it but think of the memories (and the fun pics) you'll have afterwards!