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I wasn't sure what to expect but tbh my photographer actually helped me decide time line lol... here's the basics wedding 2pm pics following supper 6-8 dance on beach 8:30-11:30 then hit up the 24 hr restaurant and either call it a night or go to the disco..not sure yet..

I'm happy to see other brides are going the fake flower route. .I was worried I was being cheesy and cheap... but now I'm Second guessing needing to bring the bouquets with... I'm very lucky my MOH owns a flower shop and my sister also makes bouquets so if I want any type of bouquet I have educated girls. ..I would love real flowers but haven't found anything I like so that's why I figured go artificial and get made what I want and bring them. .. oh I'm torn.. FI says he doesn't want to wear a bout but what would they wear then? ? I also thought about what some other brides have done, going to like Sams club or so e thing and getting my MOH to make bouquets with fresh flowers but I don't really want the hassle of needing to find flowers plus it takes time out of our trip and stress

Ya at this point I know have one extra BM but I think FI is going to ask one of his other friends to be a groomsmen so its even. .but honestly if it's uneven it doesn't bother me..

Thanks Lilian84 for the post promp I'm getting closer lol! I do but mom doesn't walk well so when I asked her she quickly said take kids or going alone is fine...so seems she didn't want to..but maybe it's the way I worded it to her...I said I'm thinking of having you or the kids. . calgarybride2015 men at alter is fine with me lol. . guess it's fair he has a little say in our wedding hehehe as for your mil traditional is to use Usher seat her I believe but with DW there is no real right or wrong

That's exactly what our best man did! ! and Monday was cut off so I went and saw our TA to make sure our BP had booked. . and he was the only one who hadn't so FI called him and he gave a bunch of excuses and what ifs as well...so he's out and FI is disappointed. ..he said he was100% in no matter wht he would be there and then didn't have courtesy to call and tell him

For my best friends wedding all the guys were at the alter but met us halfway and walked us to front...I discussed with fiancé and he says he wants men at front and our girls can walk alone lol... so guess that's wht the plan is.. he also figures mom should just sit at same time as everyone else. . ill hve to ask what she wants to do. .

Thanks ladies... Part of me wants to tell her how important it is to be there for her brother but it's hard to put my feelings aside and I feel that it's obvious he isn't a priority so why should I make her a priority! ! why beg to someone who obviously doesn't care. . FI is already feeling like he's worthless cause he has just a few friends coming.. I reassured him it's not him you can't make your friends or family come....tough situation all around.. but he agreed with me that at least we have 30 coming and if we had it bk home 30 ppl would seem pathetic and we understand not everyone can afford it.

Do we have to pay a vendor fee 8 we haven't booked them prior to the 2015 prices coming out you think? going to email Grace on this one..

It's aggravating...theres post I don't even go to like show us your dress...can't wait to go to that post when I can actually see the dresses! !

hum Diddy da....just adding my 2 cents hahaha there's a way to add up posts

did you do a website as well or just these? they are exactly wht I was wanting to do

wow...thats definitely enough!my girls are getting beach cover ups or tanks that say bridesmaid etc plus I'll give them jewelry for that day and possibly flip flops. ..now I feel cheap...but on top of all the other things for the wedding it's just getting to be so much stuff and expense. .not saying they aren't worth it but FI says we have to stop at some point

I'm planning on giving out as many as I can for them to pack in their luggage...of course there will still be a dozen I'll need to take in my bags but better than 30-40!

I would love to see pics..still can't see them on here..eventually I'll be at 150 posts ugh.... is it a line? mermaid? trumpet?

We are going next week to look at bridesmaid dresses...I'm hoping to find them for less than 100.00 but I'm realistic because I know how much I have had to spend being a bridesmaid...my girls know I'm doing my best to find the cheapest possible but also know I'm looking for certain look to them...

Wow thts awesome they have a private area! ! now I wish we would of we t with Sirenis! ! There's so many great things about tht place! calgarybride2015 there's a lot of songs put there... he k wedding wire. .but if you do chose the song o e with words one without I bet no one would really notice. .. I'm wracking to find songs with meaning when in back of my mind I feel like it's the beach..between ocean and people on the beach oh and Wi d will anyone even heat the music!!

I've already paid the deposit which was 50% so it's kinda pointless to ask now

So my FI has absolutely no family coming and I have my mom and 2 sisters.His sister was the one who suggested we do a DW. .FI parents are deceased and he has just his older sister but now she's not coming...personally I am happy she isn't coming...she annoys me! So I haven't hounded her I just let it slide but now the excitement of her not coming has worn off I actually feel really bad for my FI...he brought it up to her yesterday about coming (fyi we even offered to pay her way) she still has so many excuses why she can't. When I brought it up she just said it's not convenient for her and I know it's not her it's her husband who's not wanting to come.. she told me right after we booked her hubby wanted her to convince us to have our wedding at their farm. .I kindly said No your brother wants a destination which you encouraged so that's what we will be doing.... SO........do I beg her to come or just let it be?? I feel like no matter what I say she is gonna get pissy at me and she's the type of person you don't wanna piss off or she will make your life hell.. oh what shall I do??? I feel so bad for my FI...not to mention yesterday was the last day to put down the deposit for the trip and his best man aka best friend told him he isn't coming now either...poor guy

on my invites I added 'and kids' only on the invitations that I would consider their kids coming...I only have one other infant besides my daughter who is attending..my guests all wanted a week away from their kids lol..

I'm graciously refusing gifts...I feel awkward accepting gifts..we already live together and just had a baby..I know my friends and family know me well enough to know I meant their presence is present enough...and to those not coming I'm not having AHR so there won't be an event they will attend to feel obligated to give us a gift at..

tatimrivera. .couldn't of said it better...im totally changing my last name for the exact same reasons..

Wow. ..thanks for this...gives me something to think about!! my FI parents are deceased and his only family is his sister who is too selfish to come and for me I just have my mom as my dad is deceased as well.....so now I have to figure out how mom and the groomsmen will enter with whom..

I'm not sure my FI would be up for this but it sounds cool...This is obviously something you would discuss with the other person cause if I do it and he doesn't he would feel bad he didn't. .

WHOEVER the resort provides lol..

I never even thought about differnt sizes and not being able to find all the same dresses...I have only one bigger girl so hopefully we don't have an issue...and as for my daughter who will be one by then I think I'm going to get someone to make a tulle type dress with white and aqua.. not really saying she's the flower girl but I guess she kinda will be..