Don't know if there was a thread like this before. I was planning on having a small intimate wedding 30 people max. Now we are close to 50. We have a lot of people (co-workers, distant family, friends, and friends of family) who are inquiring about our wedding. Where the invitation is. They are sort of inviting themselves. Most of these people we are not even close to. How do I politely say NO or your Not invited? can I even do that?