Wow. So Im not alone. I'm in the same boat with the ex moh. She was stoked about the trip from the beginning, then starts crying poverty when she gets her invitation. It's bs. I think my bf is stringing me along, she keeps saying she doesn't know yet with hopes that ill chip in.. Not happenen ...But our RSVP date has long passed and she's till stringing me along,! I told her if she wasn't sure I'd ask another friend to step in as moh. She said ok,and since then has not shown up to any of my three dress hunting appts, all of these appts were made on her day off per her request. she made excuses about:mad: not showing up but ya kow what i think ladies? My bf wants to go on the trip, but since it's my wedding, she has become a jealous bia. Not sure about your BM, but That's my take. She is still in her Younger twenties too, very immature. B*tchesssss.. Lol.