I tried on sooooo many dresses to find a style. At first I hated the idea of a mermaid fit, I thought I liked A-line, but I ended up getting a mermaid. My advice would be to try of a bunch of diff kinds, poofy, a line, mermaid dropeed waist, soon youll start to see what you dont like about a particular dress.I screwed up and bought a dress on my first day out, and I quickly realized that it wasnt my dress. ll be wearing it for the trash the dress and it was only 99$, but I had major remorse for a while. I get where your coming from having never tried on a dress and buying it online. But if you try it on in your salon then you know its THE dress you want, you just have to ask the seller for LOTS of pictures, and a lot of the used ones are actually new with tags they are just samples, like Choco said. Your dress is out there and she is looking for you too!