Hi Katie, First I would set up an account and then design a few items and then add them to your cart. If you let them sit in your cart for a bit the emails will come. I've also tried just ordering something small and when your package arrives there is always coupons that they include! Also look out for groupon deals, they cycle through quite often! Hope this helps, I've gotten a lot of great advice from other brides on this incredibly helpful website! Good luck and happy planning!