Hi Ladies! I am completely new to the idea of a Destination Wedding, so forgive me if I'm not very knowledgeable in this area yet. My fiance and I have been to several different venues near our home and haven't quite found where we want our dream wedding. We were initially set on a price range of about $15,000 to $18,000 total but now with me starting full time in graduate school next month, this may not be do-able. We vacationed this past May to Beach Palace and saw a wedding almost every night we were there. We joked about having our wedding here as we already had our minds set on something a bit bigger (200+ people) and near our home. Now I'm getting serious about the idea of coming back to BP for our wedding and bringing about 20 to 30 of our closest friends and family. My biggest questions are: 1. Can anyone give me a ballpark figure on the total cost for about a week stay, reception, cocktail hour, violinist, beach ceremony? Are we looking at $10,000-$15,000? I know how much it costs for an all inclusive week vacation, but I guess I'm just wondering how much these bridal packages cost. 2. What is the normal Destination Wedding "etiquette" as far as inviting guests? Is it normal for the bride and groom to atleast pay for everyone's rooms? This seems like an aweful lot of money. How do most guests feel about the thought of spending this much $ on someone's wedding? 3. How far in advance does BP book for weddings? We would be looking at the end of August 2013 or possibly my winter break from school in December of 2013. Thanks in advance for any replies and good luck in your planning as well!!