I am so going through the same thing!! It's so hard but it gets a bit worse for me. My mother in law is upset because i am marrying her baby and she told us not ONCE or TWICE, several times that she is not going to our wedding. It’s heartbreaking I’ve known her for 4 years and I’ve never saw this side of her… it’s sad ! So as of right now only my immediate family is going, my fiancée’s sister and her family, an aunt of my fiancée and that is all for him… oh and a lot of our friends (his mom and brother are not going) So we have a total of 40 people joining us. He told me several times that he doesn’t care if no one from his family shows up, as long as I show up that is all he cares about. J He’s told me several times that if they care about us they will be there for us. If they don’t care, they won’t show up. I agree with him