I was looking for this thread when I made some changes to my website and couldn't find it! But now that I have, here's what I settled on: If you're here, you are among our nearest and dearest and we would love to have you at our marriage celebration. We know, however, that making such a trip isn't feasible for everyone, and completely understand if you can't make it. While we sincerely hope you can join us in Grand Cayman, if you can't, we know you are there in spirit and appreciate your love and support all the same!