LOL...yup! It's stressing me out. The vows/personal message that I already wrote takes about a min to a min and a half when I read it out loud. Knowing FI, his will take 20 seconds. I'll search for the posts and see what I come up with. At this point, I figure its our wedding and if we want to speak before the official vows, we may as well. Even if ppl are scratching their heads wondering wth is going on. LOL