Natalie, men do have to wear long pants to dinner. but as far as women, they could wear shorts, dresses, etc. most womem are usually dressed for the night for dinner. so a lot will wear heels, dresses etc. closed toe shoes for men is not a big deal but the pants are. I think for my wedding day dress code, im telling everyone "miami chic" meaning like chinos, khaki pants, linen pants, button down shirt or a polo shirt for men and like nice cool dresses for the women. candacey, you DO NOT want an 11 am ceremony! it's too hot and too crowded on the beach at that time. Iwould ask your wc to change it to the afternoon. Why would your travel agent do that? they shouldhave come to you first regarding a time!