Tamara, I sent you a request. Question: Have you decided on your menu? Are you allowing your guests to have a choice? I'm wondering if it's worth it? I'm sure the MIL will insist on it. Just wondering how to address it. If i decide to let people have a choice, the RSVP cards have already been printed, and I didn't include that in it. Wait until people start making their deposits and booking? and then send like a "Thank You for Booking" card and have them choose between "meat, chicken, or fish"?