Brownsugar, I mean because of all the stuff I'm adding to these damn OOT bags! My friend is having a similar issue with getting married in Jamaica. I guess b/c half of her family is from there, she doesnt want to ask them to pay the resort fee and she's now doing her wedding off the resort and it seems like too much hassle if you ask me! Finding a caterer, she has to stock the bar, decor, etc etc. It's as if she's having the wedding here in NYC!!! I'm happy I don't have to worry about that. It really did come out cheaper to have it on the resort regardless of how many people actually make the trip with us.